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Old Feb 10, 2014, 02:15 PM
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Hello my buddies,
I have this constant fear
As i said earlier,I removed some toxic people from life but i am afraid what will I do if I ever met them. I don’t owe them any money but I am afraid they would see me some day and insult me, beat me and treat me as a scoundrel. I am afraid that I won’t get enough words, I will be emotionally trapped and there would be no escape.
I am guy and I have my own reasons for doing so.
But is it my guilt that makes me think so? What should I do? I hate them and do not want to contact them.
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Old Feb 10, 2014, 02:59 PM
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I think you were right the first time... Fear not guilt. You might feel guilty if you ended it poorly and they weren't toxic. If they are toxic to you there is no reason to feel bad for ending it. If they think they need to revenge something they would seek you out. Your best bet if your see them in public is to turn and walk. If they get close enough to say something don't engage and tell them to walk away. Repeat if necessary but don't engage. Unless you frequent the same kinds of shady places a public place is a good deterrent from attacking somebody. I don't know the story but my experience is when things cool down over a done relationship they don't have an interest in starting something.

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Thanks for this!
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Old Feb 12, 2014, 04:12 AM
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I think you were right the first time... Fear not guilt. You might feel guilty if you ended it poorly and they weren't toxic. If they are toxic to you there is no reason to feel bad for ending it. If they think they need to revenge something they would seek you out. Your best bet if your see them in public is to turn and walk. If they get close enough to say something don't engage and tell them to walk away. Repeat if necessary but don't engage. Unless you frequent the same kinds of shady places a public place is a good deterrent from attacking somebody. I don't know the story but my experience is when things cool down over a done relationship they don't have an interest in starting something.

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Okay thanks a lot
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