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Nov 28, 2006, 07:00 AM
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i thought after a horrible few days it would be a good idea that i tried to get into see the doctor but because you have to phone at 8.30am for an appointment if you get through or not is another matter, tried untill 8.55 but still engaged must be busy day, never mind try again tomorrow, i managed to get some meds fri eve for me and hubby to take the edge of things, but had to go over things with the receptionist first then the doc as it wasnt doc we been dealing with, he tried to point out to me that the situation with our housing wasnt very good and we should work on that wow isnt he quick we know this thats what we have been doing,
owner of the b + b has come up with a way that we can pay him the money and let us stay a few extra days social services has said they will pay two nights we have paid him £300.00 our selves allready, hoping that we will get a house this week and that will be the end of some of our strugles
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Nov 28, 2006, 07:12 AM
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just to add, where my lovely wife stopped.
at the end of this week if we dont get any of the houses that we put in for and if the council cant help us get into the private sector, we have been offered my mothers front room to sleep, on a air bed. dont get me wrong kath does get on with my mum but her house is rather dirty and full of things that should of been thrown out years ago ..eg. baby toys hamster cages, empty fish tank. moving in with mother and father and three of my brothers and sister. is the last option and i know that kath is not very happy about doing that. we would have to go there a good couple of days before just to clean up.
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Nov 28, 2006, 08:34 AM
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hi
i am so sorry things still havent picked up for you. it gets me why good honest people such as yourselves have to struggle so much. theres no justice in this world. there are other people in this country who just get a house at the click of a finger, yet people who genuinely need one, dont. and it really does break my heart to see you this way. you all deserve better, i just hope you find somewhere soon. i will keep you in my thoughts. what i would like to say though is how impressed i am at the pair of you. it is special that the two of you stick together and you stay by eachothers side supporting eachother. you have a strong mariage, commend yourselves for that. im proud of you two, i really am. simon |
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Nov 28, 2006, 06:22 PM
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((((((((((((((( Katheryn ))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((( Dec ))))))))))))))))))) 
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Nov 28, 2006, 06:44 PM
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((((((((((((( kath & therealme ))))))))))))))
I can't say it any better than Simon. You two have an amazing relationship, to say the least. I do so hope you find a house soon. My very best to both of you. Hugs, Jan
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Nov 29, 2006, 03:19 AM
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Kathy and Dec... you will make it, together!
Your determination and strength in all this, is extraordinary! You're in my thoughts every day, my friends! ((((((((((((((((( Kathy & Dec & kids ))))))))))))))))))
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Nov 29, 2006, 05:02 AM
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I am praying for your home soon....what a wonderful Christmas present it would be for the both of you...Keep hanging in there....we are all thinking of you!!!
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#8
Nov 29, 2006, 06:31 AM
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thank you all , dear friends ((((((((((((everyone))))))))))
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#9
Nov 29, 2006, 07:01 AM
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still having trouble getting in to see doc going to try again tomorrow, after spending yesterday sorting out mother-in-laws house, (its a bit like how clean is your house a british programe) then today we are back there later doing the kitchen i dont mind doing this for her but we have done this before and it just ends up the same but if i have to stay there i want to be able to use the bathroom, and kitchen, hubby thinks it will save us money and the cpn and support team think if we end up there we will be classed as overcrowded so it might help us, also cpn have now told us that if hubby was classed as vunerable this would be in our favour, so this is what they are doing,
britains parliment want us as a country to reinstall faimly values but they dont care when a family is split up, sorry if i am wondering i just needed to vent,
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Nov 29, 2006, 09:31 AM
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Oh, you guys,
It breaks my heart that you two have such struggles. It just isn't fair. I do hope that things will change and you guys can get a house of your own. I understand Kathryn why you have been cleaning. I would be the same way. I need to have things clean and in order. My wish for you two is to have the housing see what a bind you two are in and grant you a house that you can live together and flourish. You have a great marriage and that is wonderful. You guys deserve the best. Keep your chins up, Linda
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Nov 29, 2006, 03:37 PM
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Thinking of you both and hoping things straighten out for you. i hate being someplace messy and dirty too. My BF's mom is like that and I get tired of cleaning it all up just to have her do it again. Hopefully it won't be long. Hang in there.
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#12
Nov 30, 2006, 07:46 AM
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hi guys,
here is an update, yesterday we cleaned and cleaned and cleaned, i started on the bathroom and ended up in the kitchen. you wouldnt believe the dirt and mess in just these two rooms. and did we get any thanks for it .......did we hell. my mother just sat there in front of her tv and watch stupid kids programmes. its not as if she is old, she is only 52. and she has full movement, she has just become very lazy over the last few years, please dont get me wrong i love my mother and i would do anything for her its just that she gets me mad sometimes. she even had a moody day yesterday because we were tidying, and buying new carpets for the house. today we are going back and painting , i hope she understands that we are doing this because we love her and we just can't live in her mess
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Nov 30, 2006, 07:48 AM
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thank you for listening to my ranting
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