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Old Mar 16, 2007, 06:07 PM
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Last week, my dear friends' parents business in New York burned to the ground. They lost everything in the fire, 50 years of tools, some 4 wheelers, motorcycles, trucks...everything. My heart was devestated for them.

Today, I went to my 2nd job and found out a dear woman I have worked with for over 15 years lost her house this morning to a fire. It's completely gutted. I'm so sad......

I thank the lord that no one was injured in either of the fires. I know that many items can be replaced and they both had sufficient insurance, but the feeling of invasion and loss they must be going through is something I just can't imagine.

When I was a young teen, we had a small fire in our house that my younger brother inadvertenly caused. I remember the feeling of helplessness and fear that overcame me then. We were able to stay in our home, the worst part of it was the smoke and water damage. But, to have lost everything....gracious...I just don't know.

I sent my girlfriend some money to donate to her parents, and today we had a wonderful outpouring of support from my employer and fellow employees...a couple thousand dollars are being given to my cohort in crime at the newspaper. They are even setting up a fundraiser for her and her husband....which is way cool!

Please send your prayers their way if you would be so kind.
The can all use our strength and good wishes and prayers they can get right now.

I'm so sad...... I'm so sad...... I'm so sad...... I'm so sad...... I'm so sad......

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Old Mar 16, 2007, 06:14 PM
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Oh nooo ((((((( sabau and friends )))))))

I am so glad there is an outpouring of support for them. My sympathies are with you and your friends. =(
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 06:31 PM
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((((((((sabau2 and friend))))))))))))))

I'm so sad...... I hope they're able to get back on their feet quickly, and I'm glad they've both got you as a friend and so much support.
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 07:25 PM
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so sorry to hear about all this sadness......i'll say a prayer that everyone involved will heal quickly.......
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 07:39 PM
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((((((( sabau and friends )))))))
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 11:05 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{Sabau and friends}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I can imagine the horrible feeling of helplessness!! I'm so sad......

But even the dark clouds have a silver lining! Find comfort in the fact that your newspaper is giving them such great support! That's wonderful! I'm so sad......
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 02:15 PM
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Hello Sabau.
I am very sorry to hear about the loss your friends are going through at this time. Thankfully they have friends like yourself willing to lend support when needed. Take care Soidhonia
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 02:31 PM
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Thank you all very much for your support and prayers! I will pass them along to all who were affected.

You guys rock!

Hugssssssssss
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 03:01 PM
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I can't even imagine the pain! I am so sorry!
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 04:40 PM
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(((((((((((Sabau))))))))))) sending all the good vibes I can to your friends!!!! Hope everyone in their neighborhoods pitch in to help them!!!!! So sorry to hear of their losses...!!
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 06:53 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((Sab & friends)))))))))))))))))))))))

So sorry to hear this. Sending many good thoughts and prayers.
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 11:17 PM
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((((sabrina))))

(((((beth)))))

((((talulah))))

Thank you sweet ones....I so appreciate all your good vibes, thoughts and prayers I'm so sad......

Hugsssssss
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(((((((((((( Sabau & Friends ))))))))))

I'm so sorry. Good thoughts and prayers are winging their way for all of you.

Hugs,

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my thought are with you my kind friend sab and all your friends

(((((((((((((((((((lucky, warm hugs))))))))))))))))))
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my thought are with you my kind friend sab and all your friends

(((((((((((((((((((lucky, warm hugs))))))))))))))))))
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Old Mar 18, 2007, 08:36 AM
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Best wishes to you and your friends I'm so sad......
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Old Mar 18, 2007, 12:16 PM
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My best hugs to you.
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Old Mar 18, 2007, 12:49 PM
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((((jinny))))

((((caramel))))

((((wants))))

Thank you dear ones for your thoughts, prayers and hugs!

Hugssssss
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Old Mar 18, 2007, 03:04 PM
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that is awful............i will keep your friends and families in my prayers and thoughts........pat
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Old Mar 20, 2007, 05:48 PM
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Dear sabau2,

I just want you to know we're still thinking of you and your friend and friends' parents and your co-worker who also just lost her home to a fire. Thinking of you all.
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Old Mar 20, 2007, 06:09 PM
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(((((winnetka)))))

Thank you so much! We are so appreciative of your support and everyone else's too! There are so many wonderful people in this world that renew my faith in humanity at every turn.

My friends and co-worker are strong and making it through this difficult time. I know that everyone's well wishes and prayers have helped tremendously!

Again, thank you so very much! I'm so sad......

Hugsssssss
J
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