[db333]

Maybe you folks can help solve a personal mystery for me.

Back in the late 70s, a beloved psychology professor (no longer with us) had made a short speech to our small class about normalcy. This was to prepare us for raising our hands (for all to see) in response to around 10 questions -- about what we thought was normal (to reflect ourselves).

One of the questions I remember better than others was whether we thought most people are more likely to remember bad things or good things. I was shocked that so few of my classmates raised their hands to remembering bad things. I always remember bad things -- if for no other reason than to avoid in the future.

1-- Is remembering bad things really that abnormal?
2-- Does anyone remember a similar test or know what test this might be?

Thanks

[kaliope]

hi db333
i think i remember similar tests from school. all varieties. i think teachers may make them up based on the concept specific to the class. i am surprised by the fact so many people did not raise their hands. i think they were lying...lol i dont remember most of my childhood, but what i do remember are the bad things.

welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome

[Nammu]

Many people are reluctant to say what they really feel in a format where their answers will be seen by all...hence they will vote for what they think the "right" answer is not what they really think.

I believe the replies will also change with the sample group. That's how stats and polls arrange to get the answers they want.

[CANDC]

Hi db333. Welcome to Psych Central. I think the reason we remember bad things because at a basic instinctual level, remembering when you did the wrong thing and the lion almost had you for lunch, is more relevant to survival. Here are some other info about your questions.
Why We Remember the Bad Times More Than the Good | Psych Central News

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[db333]

Thanks all for the excellent replies and affirmations.
For Kali's comment

based on the concept specific to the class

, this hand raising quiz might have been related to Self Actualization.
In case that jars any memories.