[kimmydawn]

Huge brain fart...

I can't remember how to send. Help? I clink on the link DJ gave and it takes me to my mail to send mail.

I don't think that's the way I did it before?

Thanks for any help!

KD

[kimmydawn]

Nevermind...lol.

I'm not awake yet.

I had to go through paypal and use that addy...lol @ myself. I honestly couldn't remember half asleep.

KD

yesterday morning when i found out what had happened, i could not have been lower. i went through the entire system of shock, denial, grief, acceptance and really mad in about 15 seconds. then i got numb.

i started worrying about those bills. and it all became magnified for me. it also took me back to three years ago when i lost my house in NM....for those who are new, it's a long story, but it involved my neighbor (who's parent's i had fed) and the federal government. he took my legal description and filled out a warranty deed to himself and his wife and borrowed $kkk on my home.....i had no idea that had happened. when i went to sell it, i couldn't. it was in foreclosure with him and he took bankruptcy. the government got involved and seized my house saying "yes, we know it belongs to Mrs. _______ but his creditors MIGHT have a claim against it"......it was litigation for three years. i couldn't touch it....nothing......yeah, we sued everyone.......judge bundled the cases and we got a pittance. my lawyer even cut his legal fees in half........so he got what came out of the deal. of course, buyers ran like hell.....who is going to try to buy a house that the government seized due to your insane neighbor?

i didn't realize how much that still bothers me til yesterday.....it brought it all back up. betrayal again by someone i've helped.

p.s. my dog, fayeroe, got into the kitchen during the night and ate my last flour tortilla and my last two slices of bread!!!!!! as Gilda Radner said, "it's always something".........i'm not sure that i can make a full pitcher of lemonade yet, but i'm trying. (if a patient asks me to have lunch today with them, i'm definitely going to)

thank you all so much, xoxoxo pat p.s. this might sound silly but one of the things that upsets me the most is that he knew that i was going to buy groceries yesterday.......

and i was .40 overdrawn and he knew that my account was empty!!!! he knew that i was out of milk and all staples......(he ate alot when he was here fixing stuff, etc.) there is a silver lining to that.....what if i had gone to the grocery store and loaded up and my card had been declined?????????? i would have passed out right there in the store.....

[kimmydawn]

(((((((( pat )))))))))

Hopefully the care here can work at replacing a little of that old ugly with care and support.

KD

i'm here for you pat........with da money and anything else you need! lol.....God bless you

[DocJohn]

All I can say is you folks are amazing!!

Only about 14 hours into this drive and we already have over $130 ($260 when matched).

Thank you so much!
DocJohn

[DePressMe]

I am sorry this happened to you---you have my full support!!! PM me if you need to talk.

[tranquility]

This post really shows the growth you have made in life. To be able to end with "there is a silver lining to that.....what if i had gone to the grocery store and loaded up and my card had been declined?????????? i would have passed out right there in the store..... " shows how far you have come.

I can't say that I would have been able to find a positive so quickly - it would have taken a few days!

Hope today is a better day for you my friend.

Tranquility

[Maven]

I just donated some money. I really hope everything gets better for you, Pat.

thank you, each and every one......

i'm blessed that nothing worse happened to me. car wreck, house fire, flood......but mostly, i'm blessed with Psych Central. when you live alone and have no one to talk to, having a wonderful online community that you can lay it all out to.....that's something else!!!!!

today wasn't as hard to get through as i had feared it would be. it was if someone had taken me in their arms and held me for awhile. i really, really needed that. you guys did it......love you, pat

i forgot. i have a great detective working on this. all withdrawals were made at a bank that, of course, has a camera at the ATM.

and due to someone here, i looked and Texas has a law about bank insurance. so, i called the bank and they said they did and i got the forms to fill out. she said it takes about 12 months, if you get anything from the parent company!!!!!!!!

I have just signed up for a paypal account. as soon as it's all verified, my $$ will be on it's way.

Thanks for providing us the opportunity to help, DocJohn.

[Direction]

Pat...I'm so sorry this has happened...I read the other thread...

I wish I could say more to ease all that sorrounds this...You have been a great support to me...I hope that you will feel the strength we are all sending your way...

You will make it through this! Please remember my signature...

from brain farts to ropes to hang on to............support means so much.......

anyone want a hot roll? i had yeast, flour, shortening, salt, sugar and water. i made a huge pan of them!!! i love bread, so it's all good. and i have fresh tomatoes and cucumbers and eggs!!! the girls, Thelma, Louise, Cagney and Lacy are working their, oops, tails off right now...............xoxoxo pat

[sujunew]

(((((pat)))))
so sorry I can't contribute $ at this time but sending best wishes your way.

thank you, irishj.......a good wish is wonderful!!! xoxox pat

[splitimage]

used paypall for the first time - quite proud of myself. I had someone wipe out my bank account quite a few years ago and I remember how awful it was. People can be really awful sometimes. Fayerody - hope things get better for you real soon.

---splitimage

[eskielover]

Pat,

First time I have used paypal to make a donation....wish it could have been more..but at least every little bit adds up in a large group.

As I said in your other post about your situation, you can PM me anytime.....I went through similar emotions with the ID theft situation with my Mother when she was dying......your posts brought back memories of those feelings since it hasn't been that long ago.

I can really relate to the feelings you are having which I posted in the reply on your other thread. PM me if you just feel like sharing with an ear that relates.

Debbie

[silentlyscreaming]

This site has really blown me away!!! I've only been a member for a few days now and I don't know how I lived without it. Everyone has been so accepting and supportive.

It's amazing how everyone has come to help fayerody.

I'm really sorry I can't make a donation, but yuo are in my thoughts and prayers.

(((((((((((((((fayerody)))))))))))))))

[kimmydawn]

*REMINDER*

Anyone that's donated has immediate entrance to the Supportor's Forum...exclusive and private.

If you've donated any amount and would like access, please PM me. If you've contributed in the past and would like access, please PM me as well. PM either myself, January or DocJohn.

Thanks everyone!

KD