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Old Oct 16, 2007, 11:54 PM
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So, today is my last day with my husband Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) At 11pm Wednesday night (it's now 6:45am Wednesday in Romania) we will head to Bucharesti for a 4-5 hour drive to the airport. From there, I fly at 6AM Thursday (Romanian time) to Milan Italy, have a 3 hour layover then off to Boston. Should arrive in Boston at 1PM Thursday afternoon.

I hate coming home alone.....hate it hate it hate it hate it.
Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

And of course, wouldn't you know, somehow I pulled a muscle in my shoulderblade/neck/back yesterday and I'm in agony today with it. I can barely turn my head to the right or the left and to move in any direction or do anything with my arms is making me scream in pain almost. Now before any of you wonderful people find your mind in the gutters over this problem...forget it, it didn't happen THAT way Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

Anywho....I have to get back to packing and cleaning the apartment. Florin's mom will be here later and I think she will be here all day....*rolling eyes*. Very uncomfy with her here as we cannot communicate very well and I feel completely out of place with her around. Maybe after I pack I can take a nap....yeah....a nap sounds good Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

So, I'll be around for awhile today, but will not be available through the weekend. Have lots to check up on when I get home and lots to do.....no rest for the wicked ya know Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

Love ya'll.....take good care of yourselves....catch ya back in the states!!!

xoxoxoo
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Old Oct 16, 2007, 11:59 PM
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Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) "All good things must come to an end." But maybe next time it will be him coming to see you ... and staying! Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

ACK!! Why is his mother spending the day on your LAST DAY???? She must have forgotten what it's like to be in love. Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 12:20 AM
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((((((((Sabau)))))

Hey, my mind wasnt in the gutter. I do believe you. lol

I really hope you and Florin enjoy today and it wont be to much longer when ya'll will be in the same house here in the states.

Have a safe trip home, enjoy your weekend and i hope your shoulder feels better.

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Old Oct 17, 2007, 01:03 AM
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Awwww man you just left to go there!!!! I'm so sorry its coming to a close.....it really seemed to fly. I agree that the mom has forgotten what its like to be in love, why on earth is she there on your last day??? Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) I wish he was coming home with you.
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 03:12 AM
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((((sabau)))) i wish he was able to come home with you....if i were you id see if i can get rid of her so you can spend some time alone before you leave....good luck !!!
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 04:22 AM
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Yes that saying is so true (((((((((((((((( Septi ))))))))))))))))))))

Well, mom is mom and she does what she wants, when she wants...LOL.

It's ok...we had our private time last night....a good meal, some good wine and great conversation. We'll be able to steal a few moments before getting into the taxi and going to the airport....we'll make do with what we have Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

Thanks sweety! Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

xoxoxo
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 04:23 AM
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((((((((((((((( chalmette )))))))))))))))) Thank you so much friend!

We will enjoy what time is left no doubt....even through our tears. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger so they say. Sure hope they are right! LOL

Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 04:25 AM
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((((((((((((((((((( Rayna ))))))))))))))))))))

You are right...it feels like I just did leave to come here....grrrrrrrrrr whats up with that???

Mom doesn't think of such things.....different kind of lifestyle I suppose. S'ok....when Florin gets to the states, we won't have to worry about that anymore Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

I wish he were coming home with me too. Soon, very very soon!!!

Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 04:27 AM
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Awwwww (((((((((((((((((((((( Nina ))))))))))))))))))))))

Thank you my love......how in the world did you know this is one of my favorite tunes?? Even though it brings tears to my eyes, it brings hope to my heart and soul.

Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

xoxoxoxo
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 04:29 AM
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(((((((((((((((((( inny my friend ))))))))))))))))))))

If only it was so easy to get rid of her.....LOL. I don't think my luck ever runs that good though Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

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Old Oct 17, 2007, 05:55 AM
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Sabby,

My prayers for a safe trip home...that is a very long flight & very stressful let alone adding to that the emotions of having to leave Florin.

I hope that soon you will be able to be together permanently.

Take care,
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Old Oct 17, 2007, 10:25 PM
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awww, ((((sabby)))) so sorry that your trip to be with florin has to end. pulled a muscle? i did that somehow with my neck/shoulder 3 weeks ago and couldn't turn my head for days. hope it feels better soon (it will take time to heal, i know, but it will improve and be more tolerable, really).
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Old Oct 18, 2007, 10:19 AM
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sabby,

Hope you have a good flight home and that the paperwork for florin to come over goes quickly and smoothly.

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Old Oct 19, 2007, 01:46 PM
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((((((((((((((( Eskie, wicked & Split ))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks my friends Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) I'm home safe and sound....lonely and sad, but I'll be ok. I've got to be ok...I can't deal with life's little turds if I'm not ok...LOL

I'm glad to be home...it's always great to sleep in your own bed again! Not to mention that I missed my family and friends...so it's great to see them and catch up with them too.

I'm going to take the weekend and get some rest and take care of a months worth of mail .... ugggh...LOL

Love to you all!
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Old Oct 19, 2007, 03:53 PM
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We'll be able to steal a few moments before getting into the taxi and going to the airport..

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> That's a good idea; I hear the airport restrooms are filled with FBI. Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

No, seriously, I'm sorry for the negative stuff...but you have to focus on the positive!

Oh, your muscle strain sounds like a stress pull. At least from what happens to me and my PT info, that's what it sounds like. Some of mine, if I don't ice the back, moves to the muscles in the front, top of the chest, making it feel like a heart attack. (At least now I know it's "only" stress.)

It's still a spasming, and you need to doctor it ((((Hugs))) Ice and rest. Forget about the place, if you can. Give mom something to complain or talk about or...do! Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???) Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

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Old Oct 20, 2007, 06:37 AM
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glad you re home safe but sorry at the same time cos Florin cant be with you. bureacracy sucks. hopefully he can come over soon.
take care of that shoulder!
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Old Oct 22, 2007, 11:25 AM
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Thanks hons..... Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

xoxoxo
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Old Oct 24, 2007, 09:19 PM
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Sabby,

I know from the time I came home from Italy after being there for 5 weeks, the time change actually caused me to be sick. I was so exhausted....they call it "jet lag".....whatever it's called, I landed in bed for days before I could function again.

Hope you are doing well back home,
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Old Oct 25, 2007, 07:19 AM
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Hi Debbie!

So sorry the jetlag hit you like that. I tend to suffer from it more when I get to Romania for a couple of days than when I come home. I've never seem to have issues when I come home with jetlag. When I go to Romania or the UK, the first 2 days I'm really out of sorts...not sick per se, just kind of lethargic.

I'm back in full swing here at home....things are falling into place and if I can get through this week I can get through anything Uggggh.....why me??? ( I know....why not???)

Hugsssss
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Old Oct 25, 2007, 08:06 AM
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may the day come real fast when the two of yo ucan be together for good. My heart goes out to you both!
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