<font color="purple"> Well, I was thinking earlier, (or rather having a flight of fantasy) of what it would be like if I had a third sibling. You see, my mother had a baby son before my brother and I were born (maybe by a year or two) except he was stillborn. I never talked to mom about it and dad only told me once about it. Apparently his name is Andrew.

But...if this Andrew was still alive, I wonder what he would be like? How would being the middle child change my brother's peronality? Would I even had been born if they already had two children? How would this change our lives period?

It's interesting to think about really (or maybe I'm just weird) I always imagined having short dark hair and dark eyes...not sure why...probably because there is a reoccurent boy in my dreams that looks like that.

I think I'd hate having two older brothers to be honest (I can hardly stand one!) </font>

[eskielover]

What if's????................are always fascinating to think about. As long as we don't get stuck in having them become our focus, they are fun to let our imagination wander.

Debbie

[Perna]

I have 3 brothers all older than I am :-)

I use to have old 1930s & 40s family movies and they had my father on dates with women other than our mother! Try imagining about that, if your parents didn't get together when they did or if one had picked a different partner, etc. LOL.

My brothers and I are obviously "planned"; my oldest brother was born in October, 2-1/2 years later my second brother was born in April, 3 years later my third brother was born in April and then 2-1/2 years later I was born in October.