[Easysail]

A guy I was deeply in love with left me only to marry someone else to whom he was engaged the whole time and I didn’t know! He also has kids and is sleeping with other girls on the side even though they know that he’s married. He hurt me so much when he did this that I had a sharp stabbing pain in the heart for years and other physical ailments , such as tinnitus which is so distracting and is driving me insane and depression and ptsd that I’m still getting treatment for after having been very healthy my whole life.
I also accidentally saw video clips of animals being tortured. And although I didn’t finish watching these videos until the end because it’s so hard to watch them, I’m still traumatized by what I saw.
So my question here is this: why is it that life is unfair and evil people always seem to get away with their wrongdoings while the innocent ones end up suffering?

[WishfulThinker66]

I don't know how you can get over this but I am ever so thankful you are not a part of this person's life anymore - or ought not to be. Can you or have you been able to detach yourself from this person? I suggest the further you get away and the more you involve yourself with others who you have a healthy relationship with the easier it will get.

You are right, the world seems to unfair. But I make the most with what I can.

[Easysail]

Originally Posted by WishfulThinker66

I don't know how you can get over this but I am ever so thankful you are not a part of this person's life anymore - or ought not to be. Can you or have you been able to detach yourself from this person? I suggest the further you get away and the more you involve yourself with others who you have a healthy relationship with the easier it will get.

You are right, the world seems to unfair. But I make the most with what I can.

Thank you. I’m glad I didn’t end up with him as well. I’m over it now, but the depressions persists. It’s a serious illness and he made me suffer from it.