I've learnt again

Not to say how I feel, that how I feel is wrong. Well guess what, it isn't always me whose perceptions are wrong.

fuzzy you are never wrong if you dont say how you feel how are ppl suposed to know , i always say im not a mindreader to TRM and you are a great friend

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TRM is about to make a cuppa

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hugs baby bear.....don't want you to hurt......

love Jin xxxx

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i'm glad you've learned again to say what you feel is never wrong fuzzy! how else would things ever get better? unless your friends could mind read... sometimes they can guess what we need, but no one says it as well as we ourselves do..

its the people who attempt to help but dont hear who can get things really mixed up.. good intentions aside, dont allow the bellboy take the reservations...

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it isn't always me whose perceptions are wrong.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> yes, sometimes if one lacks a bit of self-confidence, one might put too much stock in what others think.........and take what they think as "truth".

When(IMO), there are so many truths, that you can be just as "right" as anyone!

mandy

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don't let other ppl make you doubt your own perceptions

you are a very intelligent bear & observant too

sorry you are feeling so low. You may talk with me anytime , I will never judge, and your feelings are never wrong, because you feel them.



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Linda

Darrell, mandyfins, Zorah

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Remember THIS: You have every right to your feelings and you have every right to express them.

Anyone who tells you different needs their head examined!

Other's DO NOT have the right to judge you or your feelings.

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Oh Fuzzy,

I am sorry you are struggling with feeling that you can't say how you feel & that that you are being made to feel that what you are feeling is wrong.

It's important to build up self confidence to know that only you are capable of expressing what you feel & you are the only one that knows your feelings. Your feelings are not right or wrong....they just "ARE" expressions of how your experiences in life have given you the understanding of what is around you & how you see things based on your own life experiences.

Our feelings are based on past experiences we have lived through so that is why they are right for us & who we are. The only way that people can learn who we are & what we think is if they are willing to listen to our feelings.

It's hard to be able to express feelings when we have been torn down by others around us all our life & made to feel that our feelings are worthless, meaningless, & even that they are wrong.

That outside force that is not willing to listen to your feelings or wants you to think that your feelings are wrong may be the one that has been abusive to you in your past & doesn't want you to realize that your feelings about them or the situations is really correct....they may be trying to protect themselves by making you feel that your feelings are wrong, & worthless.

I pray that you will continue to work on the self estem, the strength to believe in yourself & trust in yourself being of value in every part of your being so that people that try to make you feel that your feelings are wrong or worthless will be able to have less & less effect on you as you move forward in your life.

Keep those feelings coming above all....knowing that they are right for you & that they do express what is true in your life.

Hope this makes some sense.

Hugz,
Debbie

Thanks Debbie, it does make sense ((((((((((((((( Debbie )))))))))))))))))

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i care about you so much...i hope you are feeling a tiny bit better at least.....

Thanks sweetie (((((((((((((((( inny )))))))))))))))))

fuzzy...i would have liked to respond to this privately but you have not allowed me to do so.....i believe that i have been mistaken about you.....we were good friends for a long time....i've watched your growth at the forums and was proud of you...then i withdrew my support from you because i believed that you were being unkind to some of my dearest friends....i now know in my heart that you are just a sweet, gentle bear easily swayed by some others who use people to their advantage.....i was wrong about you fuzz and i'm sorry

Thanks Julia,