have a phone call !!!! (update)

we were just doing our last minute xmas shopping , when kathy's phone went off in her bag..........
it was the police, ..... they wanted to tell me that my bail had been cancelled, this scared me , as watching all those cop shows on tv , when your bail gets cancelled you are going to be arrested again............ but the police officer explained to me that , after they had done all there investagations , that they felt there isnt a case to asnwer too.......... and that i dont have to go to the police station again for any more interviews........ and as far as they are concerned the case is closed.

i have been waiting for this day, but now that it has come , i dont feel happy or relieved ........ i feel ..........i dont know how i feel....
i wonder, does my stepdaughter know what she has done, .? not just to me but to the whole family.... and her self.
my youngest daughter has so much hatred towards her , its scary....... (i feel that is because i have openly said i hate step daughter at the moment)

i am trying to work out what her lie has caused here at home ,
for me , i can not tell my children off without feeling im being to hard on them.......... i cant relax when i go to bed ............... having nightmares in which i just give up..............watching tv shows that i used to like
watching like csi and crime files , now trigger me..
the rest of the family........... well lets just say we are all a mess..........

dec x0x

i trusted in you we belived in you (for those that dont know daughter has mental issues of her own since she was little including behavioural problems and learning dificulties and add)

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((((DEC))))))))))
Feel happy, relieved, get over the shock of it being ok if you can.
I always knew you would be cleared.
Chickens anger is her own. She is a smart girl and will learn to deal with it.
She has to do it. for her. SHe will..

Your stepdaughter her issues run deep. If you can forgive her at some point. Or try to move on from it.
Remember your a good person.
You have been given a huge gift for Christmas.
Enjoy your family........Enjoy the peace

(kathy))))) your a good mom and wife

much love for you..

this is great news TRM... i am so happy to hear it...

so happy to hear the good news dec.......hopefully with a little healing time, everything else will fall into place....merry christmas!!

thank you all, at the moment im just feeling numb, a little relieved , but still angry and upset that my family is in tatters over what she said............
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merry christmas

dec xox

I am glad this part is over with! I can't begin to imagine the pain she has caused your family and yourself. I don't know how I would act/react over this. we are all pulling for you here.

(((((((Dec))))))

I love you,believe in you, I knew this would happen......you are a legend to me......

please let me give you such a big hug and know I am soooo happy for you today is a BIG day for both of us.....

I hope you are as happy as I am today...I felt a cloud lift....

Jin xx

I am so relieved for you and your family, of course there are so many more emotions invovled because there are many layers to this issue. I am glad that this is over and you can start the long road toward healing .

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((((((((((((((((( Dec & Kath & Family ))))))))))))))))))))))

I can completely understand how you feel right now Dec. So much pain and hurt, and even when you are told there is no basis for it all...it leaves you feeling lost. Like, what just happened?? Why did it happen?? What are we supposed to do now?? How do we pick up the pieces and move on??

All of those questions can be answered slowly....one day at a time. Give yourself and the others in your family time to absorb everything....to put it in it's place...to work through all the mixed emotions you are feeling. The love between you and your wonderful wife will help you through this too.

This has been a difficult and stressful time for you with many emotions running amok. It will take a bit of time for them to calm down to a point where you can feel more comfy. But the day will come my friend, the day will come.

Sending you healing thoughts and happiness for this Christmas season and a brand new year to find the happiness you so deserve.

xoxoxo
sabby