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black-roses
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So angry at mum blaming me for like being friends with Jack I mean I didn't know he was a perverse asshole... I mean she's a hypocrite judging me for being friends with him when she put up with my dad's abuse for 17 years which is the whole reason I have PTSD in the first place. Why the **** is it my f****g fault that guys hurt me she can get f****d lazy *****.
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I’m sorry about what happened to you, some people are just evil.
Maybe she’s victim blaming you because she secretly feels ashamed of tolerating your dad’s abuse, and she’s projecting that onto you? I’m only speculating though. My mum has also been similarly weird about my friendships and relationships before, though it’s more along the lines of invalidation and being more concerned with guy’s feelings than mine. But, as someone else said to me in another post, your mother’s opinions on your relationships aren’t relevant. |
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That's very true I do care to much about what she thinks and let her make me bad for my history.
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I also think she's ashamed of tolerating dad's abuse she does say she wished she got rid of him a lot earlier. Sometimes she contradicts herself... She confuses me a lot sometimes. She said she has trauma from the courts which is understandable they didn't do much to help her.
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__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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That sucks. Sorry about your mom's reaction. maybe she's jealous you didn't put up with abuse longterm like she did. I have a weird relationship with my mom too.
__________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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