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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 04:12 AM
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It's never bad behaviour that people don't like about me


I get hated cause I a bad person

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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 07:17 AM
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I'm so sorry for the pain you must experience with such thoughts harassing you.

I myself find you to be caring and helpful here.

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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 09:59 AM
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Hey willowtigger,

I agree with Bill3. I find you to be caring and helpful here.

I'm sorry about the pain you're feeling

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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 10:08 AM
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Is what I been taught right? Willowtigger is a bad person it's never behaviour it's to do with whether or not the person is bad?

Which means willowtigger bad no matter what she does?

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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 10:36 AM
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What Willowtigger has been taught is wrong.

Willowtigger does many kind, caring, and thoughtful things here. They show that Willowtigger is not a bad person. Instead, they actually show that Willowtigger is a kind, caring, and thoughtful person.

I'm sad that people hurt Willowtigger and taught her lies.

But I'm happy that Willowtigger can learn the truth of her being kind, caring, and thoughtful from many people here.
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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 10:44 AM
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What Willowtigger has been taught is wrong.

Willowtigger does many kind, caring, and thoughtful things here. They show that Willowtigger is not a bad person. Instead, they actually show that Willowtigger is a kind, caring, and thoughtful person.

I'm sad that people hurt Willowtigger and taught her lies.

But I'm happy that Willowtigger can learn the truth of her being kind, caring, and thoughtful from many people here.
Good post

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Default Apr 20, 2022 at 11:55 AM
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What Willowtigger has been taught is wrong.

Willowtigger does many kind, caring, and thoughtful things here. They show that Willowtigger is not a bad person. Instead, they actually show that Willowtigger is a kind, caring, and thoughtful person.

I'm sad that people hurt Willowtigger and taught her lies.

But I'm happy that Willowtigger can learn the truth of her being kind, caring, and thoughtful from many people here.
I was ''taught'' that exact same stuff.

They hurt me and taught me lies.

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I was ''taught'' that exact same stuff.

They hurt me and taught me lies.

Fuzzybear is the most beautifulliest bestest Fuzzybear in the whole of all of the universes

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Fuzzybear is the most beautifulliest bestest Fuzzybear in the whole of all of the universes


So true!

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 05:24 AM
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What do I need to do to make everyone happy wth me?

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 06:57 AM
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Some people won't be happy with you unless you do stuff that is bad for you or is not what you want to do.

Some people just won't be happy with you no matter what you do.

I have experienced the above myself. Therefore, I've learned that I cannot have all people being happy with me.

This might be a hard lesson, but it is also a healthy one.

What goes through your mind if you think someone is not happy with you?

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Some people won't be happy with you unless you do stuff that is bad for you or is not what you want to do.

Some people just won't be happy with you no matter what you do.

I have experienced the above myself. Therefore, I've learned that I cannot have all people being happy with me.

This might be a hard lesson, but it is also a healthy one.

What goes through your mind if you think someone is not happy with you?

I get thoughts that I'm a bad person for not making the other person happy with me

Cause certain people hammered home into my brain the fact I made them do things, like if one person hit furniture in anger it was cause I made him by what did or didn't do


Someone else would hit me round the head for being stupid and it was my fault

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 10:45 AM
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I'm so sorry that people blamed you and hit you. And it must have been terrifying for people to be breaking stuff in anger. I'm really sorry you have had to experience that.



You did not deserve any of that.

You do not make people do things like break furniture. You don't have that kind of power.

They choose violence and then blame you afterwards. It was always their fault, not yours.

Those thoughts you get are not true. I bet you are right though about where they come from: it sounds like people hurt and terrified you if you didn't make them happy.

Willowtigger is a kind, caring, thoughtful person. It is good to make people happy when you love/care about them, like you did yesterday with your exceedingly kind words to Fuzzybear. But you don't have to make everyone happy, most especially people who hurt you and are mean to you. I think you should ignore and avoid such people as much as you possibly can.

((((((((Willowtigger))))))))

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What punishments is a willowtigger getting?

Willowtigger deserves them

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When I call to mind the many kind things that Willowtigger says here, I think she deserves gentleness and kindness and support and hugs.

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 01:54 PM
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Am I real?

i starting to get thoughts again that i not real and the thoughts about radioactiveness are coming back

Last time the radioactiveness thoughts was about bananas and banana skins being 100% radioactiveness, this time i getting thoughts that the girls are both eating radioactiveness when food is in their bowls cause their bowls put radioactiveness into their food

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 07:18 PM
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It's never bad behaviour that people don't like about me


I get hated cause I a bad person
People don't like me either.

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 07:36 PM
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Often people don't like those who are different from them. I had that issue as a teen because of my "social awkwardness". But now I think it was undiagnosed autism.

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Default Apr 21, 2022 at 08:48 PM
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And willowtigger loves cats. Proof of a good soul!🙂😺🐱🐱😻

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