Did I do that?

NicholasFlammel · Nov 25, 2022 at 12:15 AM

I'm asleep, my mom knows I'm asleep, comes in and screams "YOU FORGOT TO BRUSH YOUR TEETH!" knowing full well I didn't waking me and my dog up in the process then proceeds to go into her room and locks herself in and her 2 dogs out. Those 2 fight with my dog, so I knocked on the door expecting her to open it so I can't him go to the bathroom (he crying at this point because he has to go) and she "yells go away!". Not only can I not go back to sleep after she woke me up, my dog still has to go to the bathroom with nowhere to go. I'm so full of emotion right now I can't tell whether I'm upset, angry, and whatever else you can think of.

NicholasFlammel · Nov 25, 2022 at 01:49 AM

I'm going to be upset if I can continue my routine. I'm going to turn into Monk soon lol

divine1966 · Nov 25, 2022 at 08:42 AM

Are you a child?

NicholasFlammel · Nov 25, 2022 at 11:37 AM

No, I have a seizure disorder so I can't drive and live so far away from anything that I can't get a job or move out so I'm stuck here.

Multiple doctors have said I'm not disable because I can walk talk and move my arms, though I can't get around with no bus and when you're in a town with no busses and have to rely on your mom for everything, you're pretty much screwed.

lizardlady · Nov 25, 2022 at 06:03 PM

Nicholas, why couldn't Grimm go out to take care of business when your mother would not open her door? Couldn't you have taken him for a walk?

I'm gobsmacked that you have a seizure disorder and doctors say you are not disabled. Have you contacted your state's vocational rehabilitation office for help finding a job? They can help with transportation too.

NicholasFlammel · Nov 27, 2022 at 03:26 PM

Sorry, my internet's been out. I have multiple times, but they've only been able to get me one interview an it was in Atlantic city, NJ. A good 25 minutes, if not longer, driving distance from me. It's the same thing each time I attempt I get a recommendation from them, but without transportation - there's nothing I can do.

And as far as Grimm was concerned that night, the other two dogs don't like him very much, and they were both roaming the house. The last time that they were out together, I had Grimm in the basement locked away and they were upstairs. I was upstairs as well, but my friend came upstairs and forgot to close the door and they went at it for about 20 minutes until we could get them apart and I have the scars to prove it.

They've done it before, and given the chance I'm sure they'll do it again. It's always Blu (Can Corso) who attacks him. My other Pit, Diesel (Grimm's a Pit/Bull mix), follows up to protect Blu. It's always a blood bath so I couldn't let him out.

This time Blu was named after a movie (Velociraptor in Jurassic Park).

lizardlady · Nov 27, 2022 at 05:13 PM

Okay, I get why you couldn't take Grimm out. I fight between Can Corso and pit vs. another pit would be terrifying. Poor Grimm. Would he use a pee pad in an emergency?

NicholasFlammel · Nov 27, 2022 at 06:41 PM

I don't have anything to use as a peepad. He's always gone outside, even when he was a puppy.

lizardlady · Nov 28, 2022 at 10:33 AM

You can buy pee pads at the store or online. I'm not suggesting only using them., but they might be a good backup for this sort of situation.

divine1966 · 11:55 PM

I think it’s essential that you get pee pads or figure something out. It’s concerning that the dog is unable to go out to relieve itself.

I am not sure why there are three (or 4???) large aggressive dogs in the house and is so bad it ends up in a blood bath! It sounds stressful. .Can Corso, aren’t those guard dogs or hunting dogs? What is it guarding? Are those all service dogs? Why so many dogs and they don’t even get along. Plus you forget to feed yours and feel lazy to walk him. Now he can’t even pee when he needs to? It’s just so wrong. It’s upsetting to even hear about it

Vocational disability services, if you have account with them, should be looking for employment for you that allows public transportation or something close by.. their goal is to get everyone employed even if part time. If you don’t work and aren’t on a disability how do you afford a dog?

NicholasFlammel · Dec 01, 2022 at 07:30 AM

The 2 dogs are from my mom's boy before she was with him, my dog was stranded tied to a lamp post and her boyfriend went a got a cane Corso. They all got together just fine until a few years after he brought Blu (the corso) into the picture. He's a hunter and a dickhead. There's no need for that many dogs and Grimm should've been the last of them.

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

Menu

My Support Forums - Mental Health Support Groups

Get emotional support and friendship from others like you!

Did I do that?

My Support Forums

NicholasFlammel Member Member Since Nov 2022 Location: Minotola, NJ Posts: 59 1 47 hugs given	Nov 25, 2022 at 01:49 AM #2 I'm going to be upset if I can continue my routine. I'm going to turn into Monk soon lol __________________ Fun is not optional, it is mandatory.
	Reply With Quote

divine1966 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Dec 2014 Location: US Posts: 22,364 (SuperPoster!) 9 1,277 hugs given	Nov 25, 2022 at 08:42 AM #3 Are you a child?
	Reply With Quote

lizardlady Legendary Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Mid World Posts: 17,483 (SuperPoster!) 21 7,513 hugs given	Nov 25, 2022 at 06:03 PM #5 Nicholas, why couldn't Grimm go out to take care of business when your mother would not open her door? Couldn't you have taken him for a walk? I'm gobsmacked that you have a seizure disorder and doctors say you are not disabled. Have you contacted your state's vocational rehabilitation office for help finding a job? They can help with transportation too.
	Reply With Quote

lizardlady Legendary Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Mid World Posts: 17,483 (SuperPoster!) 21 7,513 hugs given	Nov 27, 2022 at 05:13 PM #7 Okay, I get why you couldn't take Grimm out. I fight between Can Corso and pit vs. another pit would be terrifying. Poor Grimm. Would he use a pee pad in an emergency?
	Reply With Quote

NicholasFlammel Member Member Since Nov 2022 Location: Minotola, NJ Posts: 59 1 47 hugs given	Nov 27, 2022 at 06:41 PM #8 I don't have anything to use as a peepad. He's always gone outside, even when he was a puppy. __________________ Fun is not optional, it is mandatory.
	Reply With Quote

lizardlady Legendary Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Mid World Posts: 17,483 (SuperPoster!) 21 7,513 hugs given	Nov 28, 2022 at 10:33 AM #9 You can buy pee pads at the store or online. I'm not suggesting only using them., but they might be a good backup for this sort of situation.
	Reply With Quote