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Thank you… however, there is the fact that she became pushy and demanding of me when I couldn’t meet at times convenient for her. I don’t like that. I appreciate the different approach and ideas. However my issue is not being discerning enough with people and I end up befriending toxic people. This is precisely what I’m trying to change and avoid. And I don’t have difficulty forming friendships with females at all. I don’t know where that came from. I just need and want more friends that live locally. So my issue is discernment and boundaries. And honestly I felt this woman crossed my boundaries by being so pushy when I said I couldn’t walk at certain times. So I revert back to my original stance that this is not one I wish to befriend. Thank you both however for your ideas and input.
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I hope you do find a good friend, Hope
i'm at the point where i may have to cut off a friendship myself cause the friend in question is getting too demanding and pulling at me in email too many times, despite being told i can't spend the amount of time and energy on her that she needs |
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I have made a a few new friends since my divorce. One is a couple, and especially the female. Another is a male, but I don't see him often. And a third I knew in college, so he may not really count, but we've since then gone to a concert together. I also have become closer to a male friend of mine as well, who used to be more of an acquaintance. So there's that, I guess. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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