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Nov 03, 2023 at 11:05 AM
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I've tried to talk to a doctor (different doctors...) about this a couple of times. But they ''don't have time''... to listen, to even a very brief account.
I feel silenced  Why are they so ''disinterested'' Twice now I've developed a new, severe, allergic response after a significant trauma. The first time I was 20. I hate it. I try not to hate me. And I try not to internalize the guilt and blame they tried (and still try) to force onto me.I feel..... edited. Bad, guilty me  .gif "Sad Girl")
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Nov 03, 2023 at 11:48 AM
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Observations (which may or may not be relevant in your case):
Some doctors feel too superior to their patients to listen. Some doctors, regardless how they feel about their patients, have too many other patients and duties to offer much in the way of truly listening. Some doctors - fearing what the patient may tell them might obligate actions, referrals and all the necessary paperwork - don't want to hear. Some doctors listen or at least try to listen. The bureaucratic frameworks in which they are enmeshed may or may not permit them to do anything to act on what they hear. 
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Nov 03, 2023 at 04:17 PM
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TRIGGER
This isn't ''trivial''.. I try to ignore it. That doesn't work. Eff it and eff them.   They did try to refer me. And for all the wrong reasons  Thank you Rohag for giving a .....  Going back to ignoring it again. Thanks for the insight, I wish they had a fraction of that insight. I'm sick of their inane lies and horror shock tactics I'm going to look into IFS. Maybe if I find a T who has never worked for the @@@ I might have better ''luck''..... __________________
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Nov 06, 2023 at 02:10 PM
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My body has had severe allergic responses to so many things all my life.
I couldn't take asprin from as young as I can remember. Then around 17, eye makeup made my whole face swell. Then allergic to penicillian & keflex & another antibiotic this year....pray I don't ever need one in the future. Really bad reaction to steroids (just one pill) last fall. Had a bad reaction to benedryl (go figure). Had a psych drug one time in the hospital & none of my joints would move in the morning. Was allergic to an asthma drug in the hospital too & it caused larangitis so couldn't make a sound. Got into stinging nettle in the field behind my farm & my whole hand & arm swoll up like a balloon. Took weeks for the swelling to go away. Allergic responsed are tied into our immune system & really MD's don't have a clue about allergic responses from my own personal experience. They just tell me don't ever take it again ...so my list is long & at this point in my life I don't even go to an MD but finding natural treatments for everything because there is no point in taking anything the medical field could offer since my body rejects it all with side effects & allergic reactions. I never blame me....but I do blame big pharma for shoving drugs & chemicals on people for things there are safer treatments for. Only things MD's & PDOCS know is to shove drugs at symptoms that never fix the real problem but most times cause the "need" for another drug to counter the side effects of the first drug & that just snowballs into a nightmare. At 70, I am not taking meds for anything & now when I do get sick I treat myself with natural cures. I don't even waste my time discussing it with MD's because they really don't know anything except pushing drugs as a solution for everything & I am not taking my life in that direction __________________  Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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