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I have a hard time with rejection, especially when I also feel misunderstood and when I feel that there is injustice.
I'm sure that this is linked to my dysfunctional, neglectful and abusive family of origin Something happened recently (not here) which has triggered me and made me wonder... sort of.. why do I bother. I know this post doesn't say much. I just feel like absolute crap. I would appreciate any hugs/support __________________ |
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Often I am thankful that people like that reject me because in reality I reject people who treat me like that so it is basically a mutual thing. Saves me from a future crappy relationship
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It hurts when we are rejected by people whose acceptance we want. But for all those who reject us there are thousands who will accept us the way we are. Just be true to yourself. And be happy with who you are - the unique being that is you. The Universe cares for all of us and each one of us has the same validity as any other. Hang in there gorgeous.
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Yes, rejection can really plumet the emotions into a horrible place Fuzzy, especially with the mental health aspects on top of it. Very relatable. Stay safe dear Fuzzybear. Stay safe, take good care of self, until you come right again...It's a very choppy sea at times, that's all I know.
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Once rejection gets under your skin it never leaves it seems like
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- I love you Fuzzy, you matter to me.
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Rejection causes such a deep pain, especially when its from family. It gets so that one almost expects it to happen. I'm sorry that happened to you, Fuzzy. You don't deserve that.
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I think you're walking the high ground Fuzzy. That's a victory. To those who know you here and know how supportive and accepting you've been to so many...you're amazing really. Even without words sometimes you show your care and concern. THAT is honesty. I wish I was as open as you in your grace with others. You are loved here...please use that knowledge to help block the bad stuff. (((big hug)))
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Growing up I didn't feel accepted the way I was. My parents tried to mold me into something I wasn't, something they wanted me to be. It's only in the past few years I've gotten comfortable with my own skin, that I'm just fine the way I am and I'm not "too sensitive" or "too emotional". On that thinking, THEY weren't emotional or sensitive ENOUGH. __________________ Call me "owl" for short! Hmmm....looks like some good tips in here. "Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time." |
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