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Mar 24, 2024 at 01:05 PM
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I have a hard time with rejection, especially when I also feel misunderstood and when I feel that there is injustice.
 I'm sure that this is linked to my dysfunctional, neglectful and abusive family of origin Something happened recently (not here) which has triggered me and made me wonder... sort of.. why do I bother. I know this post doesn't say much. I just feel like absolute crap. I would appreciate any hugs/support  
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Mar 24, 2024 at 01:50 PM
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Often I am thankful that people like that reject me because in reality I reject people who treat me like that so it is basically a mutual thing. Saves me from a future crappy relationship
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Mar 24, 2024 at 03:26 PM
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It hurts when we are rejected by people whose acceptance we want. But for all those who reject us there are thousands who will accept us the way we are. Just be true to yourself. And be happy with who you are - the unique being that is you. The Universe cares for all of us and each one of us has the same validity as any other. Hang in there gorgeous.
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Mar 24, 2024 at 06:19 PM
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Yes, rejection can really plumet the emotions into a horrible place Fuzzy, especially with the mental health aspects on top of it. Very relatable. Stay safe dear Fuzzybear. Stay safe, take good care of self, until you come right again...It's a very choppy sea at times, that's all I know.
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Apr 13, 2024 at 04:35 PM
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Once rejection gets under your skin it never leaves it seems like
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Apr 13, 2024 at 04:56 PM
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- I love you Fuzzy, you matter to me.
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