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Location: New York State
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Mine is Disorganized Fearful Avoidant.
I desire love/relationship, but I don't trust myself to choose safely. (I was adopted by a narcissist woman) I am very easily hurt. The hardest (non)relationship is with my adult children. They can be awful. But imagine being raised by a mother with this attachment style... They were my entire world when they were young. Up until recently, I enjoyed being with them. How do you heal from this? Sent from my SM-A146U using Tapatalk |
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Location: Texas
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Hello Deee. I'm sorry you are struggling. It must be
alot to deal with. I do hear an open, honest assessment though. You really seem to know yourself. I think that is a good quality to have. It sounds like you have nice memories of times ago when your children were growing up. I hope you can find an answer to your question. My thoughts will be with you through your journey. shaggy |
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Hi Dee,
So sorry you had to deal with a narcissist. That is awful. My heart goes out to you. You could check your library for these books: "Toxic Parents" by Susan Forward "You're Not Crazy, It's Your Mother" by Danu Morrigan They might help?? |
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