[unpredictable]

I just found out about a bad thing that happenend in my neighborhood. Warning: Don't read if you are already depressed or feeling down.


A friend of my dad's and a lady I knew was murdered. Her ex broke in and killed her and her new boyfriend and then himself.

It the second suicide in our neighborhood that I know about. The other was a man that lived across the street from us. But that was awhile ago. And its the first murder in our neighborhood I know about. And by neighborhood I mean same street very close.

I feel bad for my dad since I know it really hurts him. And I feel bad for my mom cause my dad drinks alot and its only worse when something like this happens.

[SeptemberMorn]

I'm so sorry, Julie! I'll bet it's really scary about now. One positive it's that the killer isn't a serial killer, I guess.

[alyssa_angel]

((unpredictable n family))

[bebop]

I am so sorry hon. ((((hugs))))

[unpredictable]

TY all of you, yeah and I'm not scared (never am, lol)
But I guess I feel like I should feel bad or something but I don't really feel anything.

[sabby]

(((((((((( unpredictable ))))))))))))

Feeling numb about something like this is not unusual. It may take time for you to process the happenings and how you really feel about it all. Of course it is terrible...and I'm sorry that it happened in your neighborhood.

Please take good care.


sabby

[I_WMD]

I have become responsive to lifes >>>> unpredictables . >>>>> rather than reactive.

As time passes and more unthought ofs or forseens happen in life ,,,, then ,, as I am At this point in time ....

I have to equate it with >>> L. .I. .F .E. ... As it has become more or less,,,,,,,,,,,,

(((unpredictable)))
I am very sorry. Its very hard to go threw that.
take good care of yourself
muffy

[BrnEyedGrl]

Its just terrible when you here something like that on your TV, but to have it happen right in your own neighborhood, possibly to people you know, that really hits home.
Its just so sad!!! (I just feel it happens way to often now though too!)

[nowheretorun]

sabby said:

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and it is oh so hard to be strong at times unpredictable.... glad you found this place....

the basics apply for me.... someone else has said "recognize, that right now, in this moment, there is nothing, absolutely nothing that i must do to feel safe, except breathe'

wow I am so sorry that happened

(((((hugs))))

Unpredictable: I hope you can find comfort in handling this loss and teh challenges it will give your Mom and Dad. Knowing ahead of time what possible reactions could be is a benefit in a small sort of way. ((((((((((((((Unpredictable)))))))))))))))))))))