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Magnate
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Jan 18, 2005 at 03:14 PM
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I don't even know why I'm writing this, but I just feel like I"m not connecting at all lately. Not with anyone in 3d (except T) and not with anyone online. I feel like isolating and I don't know why. I feel like I'm on my own planet, alone.
Anyone have any ideas or suggestions? __________________  Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name ~Alanis Morissette |
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 18, 2005 at 03:38 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
 It must be very frustrating.I don't know what to tell you, except keep trying? I hope things start getting better. __________________ “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~ Maya Angelou Karma is a boomerang. Trying to read 52 books in 52 weeks. See how I'm doing |
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Jan 18, 2005 at 04:10 PM
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I wish I had .... Maybe just be gentle with yourself and don't push yourself too much. We are all here for you! ((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))
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Jan 18, 2005 at 04:17 PM
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I dont know if this would help, but, when I post something, I always appreciate anybody that replies, however, I always hope for replies from certain members, and you are one of them.
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Jan 18, 2005 at 04:43 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Angela}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I get the feeling quite often, too. It makes me raise my voice to whoever it is I'm trying to connect with, or at least get some semblance of them having heard me. Yelling only gets me yelled at, so I keep my mouth shut.
Maybe in 3D you could walk up and touch the person you want to make that connection with? 
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Magnate
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Jan 18, 2005 at 06:09 PM
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That's the problem. I"m only 1/2 sure that I even want to connect with anyone. Part of me wants to, but part of me just wants to hide. That would be less distressing if I had any idea why
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Jan 18, 2005 at 06:11 PM
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Do you really think we'll let you hide
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Jan 18, 2005 at 06:11 PM
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This is probably a stupid post. Sorry. You guys can just ignore it
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Jan 18, 2005 at 06:13 PM
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no way, get a hold of a candy bar and IM me NOW young one this is Angie speaking
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Jan 18, 2005 at 06:21 PM
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Angela, please hun PM me now lets talk
Angie __________________ A good day is when the crap hits the fan and I have time to duck. |
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Jan 18, 2005 at 07:00 PM
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For ME, those symptom would indicate a bit of a depression. But that's just me. Isolating, and disconnecting are, for ME, sure signs of depression. How about you? Take care of my pal Angie. Hugs, em
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Jan 18, 2005 at 07:12 PM
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Hi SweetCrusader -- I get that feeling too. In fact, right now, I kinda have those blahs of feeling too detached from everyone and everything.
Like Gloria, I find you someone I look forward to hearing from and "seeing around' the campus. I hope you'll keep trying until something works. (((((((((((((SweetCrusader))))))))))) |
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 18, 2005 at 07:19 PM
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I agree with Emski. Isolating and feeling lonely and disconnected are sure indicators of depression to me. That and sleeping a lot. Hard to connect with others in my sleep. 'cept for with my dream guy, but he's apparently AWOL at the moment.
 Please take care of yourself. You may not feel all that connected here, but you are loved and wanted here. gg __________________ Have you ever considered piracy? You'd make a wonderful Dread Pirate Roberts. |
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 18, 2005 at 08:00 PM
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Hey sweet one. I am on with the depressed feelings board here. I think what has been helpful to me is forcing myself to do something healthy like a walk, swim, movie with a friend. You are a good crusader my friend, hang in there.
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Jan 19, 2005 at 09:48 PM
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((((((SweetCrusader))))))) There are so many people here who care about you. So many people that you have helped. You are special.
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Jan 19, 2005 at 10:59 PM
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((((((Angela)))))) Do you know that you're my best friend? Even though we've only met in 3D twice. I really look forward to chatting with you, although I'm afraid I might lean on you too much sometimes. It certainly seems to me that we connect. But I'd really like to see you reaching out to more people who are near you though.
I'm really sorry you are feeling that way. I'm not connecting much IRL either, but I have you, and that helps a lot. Love, Wendy 
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 19, 2005 at 11:57 PM
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*hugs* I'm sorry you feel that way... I spent 3+ years of not connecting... now i"m finally getting myself out there *hugs* I hope you start to feel better soon!
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