A married Neighbor of my boyfriend walks into his home, if the doors are unlocked. Waits until no family member or girl friends car is there to visit. Has gotton a Straight forward message from the girlfriend that you are not liked, told face-to-face that she is not liked, boyfriend swears her told her the same thing, and yet shows up and visits as soon as he is outside alone... he is pleasant, inforative and chatty with her.. shoe on the other foot? I know he'd kick me to the curb.. why am I tolerating this? I just loaned him alot of money due to an unexpeted illness, spead over 5 weeks running hundreds of miles to be there for him and gave him funiture that would make his life more comfortable. Feeling might disrespected and if this was a "guy" neighbor that he had an issue with, I'd respect him enogh to remain curt and "stern' knowing how my lover felt. There has been "issues" with the married neighbor prior to this, but now, I'm livid. He called my phone 6 times last night and was angry that I didn't answer. The next day.. 1 call. Am I being the jealous, yes, protive due to the recent illness, and my love for this person... but have know all along that "something" had went on in the past. Who walks into someone's home, a neighbor's home, when ever the door is unlocked? Anyone got a "take" on this behavior?
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