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Nov 29, 2012, 09:56 PM
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For my partners b-day I got him a fab trip, I ran it past him first as it was quite costly; he said he was really look forward to it. I've been looking forward to it too, really looking forward to spending a day being a normal couple and to enjoy being together. But yesterday he tells me that we're probably not going, that it probably best if my parents use it. I'm heartbroken i was really looking forward to it, i knew i shouldn't have bother and certainly shouldn't have got my hopes up, I just let myself believe this maybe different to all the other times.
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Dec 01, 2012, 03:34 PM
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I'm so sorry that this happened again. You deserve better.
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Dec 01, 2012, 05:25 PM
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My parents have come to stay for a day or two, i think both my mum and his have told him how much i needed the break of our day trip; as despite telling me i should never have booked it (i ran it past him, he said he wanted to go and even went with me to get the tickets) has changed his mind and touchwood we're going in the morning, but i won't count my chickens yet
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Dec 04, 2012, 07:26 PM
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We went
 wish we hadn't he spent the whole day being sarcastic, should have just let the money go down the drain 
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Dec 04, 2012, 07:34 PM
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My husband was sarcastic when we first got married (like 38 years ago). I wouldn't tolerate it & told him he could either change or get the hell out of my life......had to continually remind him for quite awhile, but he finally quit most of his sarcasm.....but he was horrible in so many other ways....but it took me 33 years to finally dump him.....& 5 years later to get the divorce which I am going through now.
Honestly, I didn't think if was worth my time to be with someone like that.....I hid in my career for most of those 33 years.....my degree in the first few years, then the career.....wasn't until after I lost my career & no longer had a place to hide from him that I realized just how bad he really was.....moved 2100 miles away.....thank heavens.......needed the distance so I wouldn't let him have it for all he's done to me. Bottom line is that you don't have to put up with his crappy treating of you....set your boundaries & DON'T let him cross them without consequences.
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