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Jul 03, 2016, 11:57 AM
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I went into crisis a week ago when I found out my partner had lied to his wife about me. Previously he had told me that he lived in a foreign country apart from his wife . Then I found out they visited there twice as a couple. He never lived there and he never went alone. Then she told me that he said I told her a lie when I told her he told me he lived there for 2 years.
There are a few reasons I don't cut my losses and exit the relationship. I've been in a relationship with him for 4 years. I have a child who now has a relationship with him. My mother and my brother are tired of his lies, my father likes him. I have also gone no contact with my family for a period of time. Today I am really aggravated that he has put his phone in do not disturb mode and is not reading my Facebook messages. I also blocked him on my iPhone and I told him this yesterday . I can not replace him at this point as there is no one suitable. I am not afraid of being alone. I need to find a new source of emotional support. My support group banned me for the weekend because I was taking my stress out on other members who were patronizing me. I had my own PD NOS which was treated after 6 years of continuous therapy with the same therapist . He is in complete denial that he is bpd. He can not argue with me when I point out he is a pathological liar. His father hopes that I am strong enough not to give in to him. He has been married to a woman for 40 years who has not been able to stand up to him even with two affairs. I stopped seeing him 1 year ago when I found he lied to me about filing for divorce. We are in a LDR . Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Jul 11, 2016, 11:45 PM
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Leomama, that sounds like a very painful situation. Separation seems like a good idea. If he has had affairs and has lied to you about the stars of his marriage, then it is unfortunately probable that he will continue to behave in ways that hurt you. How are you defining your therapeutic separation?
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Jul 11, 2016, 11:49 PM
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I've decided that once he gets divorced we'll go from there. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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