[EliaHarr]

Hi everyone,

A lot of people say that HPD is a permanent disorder and no matter how much you try HPD people won't change and they'll always seek attention and use lying as a mechanism of achieving that. That might be true to some point but not always, I have a girlfriend that had HPD 9 months ago and everyone who knows HPD recommended that I end the relationship as long as I can before she plays me and move to seek attention from another person but I refused that nonsense because I believed I can help her without even telling her that she had HPD and I succeeded 90% and today we're happier and I'm relieved of those fake dramatic stories just because I loved her, stood by her, and believed she'll change.

[joshuas-mommy]

I think my mom has HPD, also. Because she is always acting like a victim when she is the perpetrator. She has always wanted me to be punished because she was jealous of me. She uses the mental health workers to punish me and lies acting like a victim. She has always just wanted me to be punished and suffer. She has been extremely abusive to me. I think she also has munchousens disorder by proxy because she abuses me and then acts like she is a great care provider and denies that she abuses me. She is also very jealous of me, she told me, because I am younger and thinner than her. But, she said why would she be jealous of me because I have wrinkles around my eyes. She smiled when she saw the wrinkles around my eyes because she felt prettier than me. I am really sick of this, but no one believes me about anything I try to tell them about her. My mom has always punished me if my little brother did something wrong. She said it was my fault because I was two years older than him. She didn't punish my younger brother and has always favored him because he was in gifted program. I had some developmental delays when I was in kindergarten, and I still had the same delays in second grade. My mom doesn't remember what they said I had, but she remembers everything about my brothers. My mom said she is a mistress and that is why she likes to punish me.