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Old Jan 30, 2019, 03:35 PM
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I know my husband loves our children and that it affects his confidence that he is not able to connect with them like he used to. Does anyone have any advise on methods to encourage more interaction with kids?
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Old Jan 30, 2019, 06:59 PM
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Is the disconnect occurring due to the developmental stages of your children? If the children are excerting independence it may be tough for your husbands logical mind to sift through the emotional reaction of feeling rejected? Are you both in individual therapy? I would think that it might be beneficial for your husband to sort through the plethora of emotions that comes from child rearing. Maybe even help him sort through some of the disappointments if your husband had plans/hopes/dreams that don't match the reality of how life truly is?

I'm just tossing out a bunch of guessing as your OP is in the partners of those with a personality disorder.
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Old Jan 30, 2019, 07:55 PM
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Here are links to 7 articles, from PC's archives, related to the topic of parenting:

Tips for Parenting with a Mental Illness

Nine Ways Children Benefit From Secure Attachment

5 Attachment-Based Activities to Strengthen Parent-Child Relationships

Theraplay: Using Attachment-Based Play to Improve Child Well-Being

Should You Tell Your Kids about Your Mental Illness?

https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-thin...dium=popular17

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/bipol...dium=popular17
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Old Jan 31, 2019, 02:44 AM
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I know my husband loves our children and that it affects his confidence that he is not able to connect with them like he used to. Does anyone have any advise on methods to encourage more interaction with kids?
How old are your children? What has caused the change in connection? Age, moving far away, conflict?
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