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Old Mar 14, 2009, 09:25 PM
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No matter what I did all the education in the world no matter what I tried. She was bright purple, I was doing cpr,I loved her so much.I have to live with this. I don't know how to stop the recording from going over and over again.

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Old Mar 15, 2009, 05:22 AM
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(((( tifferific )))) Safe hugs, if you want them. I wish I had some wonderful advice. Do you see a therapist, or a counselor... anyone you can talk about this with? That might be helpful. I just wanted you to know I read your post, and I care. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
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Old Mar 21, 2009, 11:01 PM
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(((( tifferific )))) Safe hugs, if you want them. I wish I had some wonderful advice. Do you see a therapist, or a counselor... anyone you can talk about this with? That might be helpful. I just wanted you to know I read your post, and I care. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Thanks for caring it has been hard and horrible. I know she's in a better place. But I just keep on seeing and reliving it over and over again. I want her back.
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Old Mar 22, 2009, 03:49 AM
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Perhaps some grief counseling can help you cope with the re-living it part, and help you have a safe place for your memories.

I'm so sorry for all your pain and suffering.

Please look into the grief counseling, as it has helped some people I know greatly.

Peace and Sympathy,
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Old Mar 22, 2009, 01:38 PM
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tifferific, i am so sorry for your loss. it must be so difficult for you but know we are here if you want to talk. take care and my deepest sympathy.
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(((((tifferific)))))

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Old Mar 23, 2009, 08:56 AM
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No matter what I did all the education in the world no matter what I tried. She was bright purple, I was doing cpr,I loved her so much.I have to live with this. I don't know how to stop the recording from going over and over again.
thank you everyone for your support this has just beenripping me uo inside. my therapist says that there are godd deaths. oh my gosh so not there.i just can"t get it out of my head and her husband loved her so much this is so hard.
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Old Mar 26, 2009, 12:10 PM
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thank you everyone for your support this has just beenripping me uo inside. my therapist says that there are godd deaths. oh my gosh so not there.i just can"t get it out of my head and her husband loved her so much this is so hard.
2 weeks now I should be taking care of her today. I miss her so much. Were is she?
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Old Mar 26, 2009, 02:37 PM
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((( HUGS ))) - Please know that time will indeed heal your wounds and get you to the place where you can live again and be happy... it took me four years to return to this place of being after the death of my only daughter (handicap from birth - passed at ten yrs old).

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Old Mar 26, 2009, 02:44 PM
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2 weeks now I should be taking care of her today. I miss her so much. Were is she?
Now you need to take care of you.....

You know she wouldn't blame you...it was not your fault.
You know she is at Peace and would want the same for you.
You know that she would want you to be happy.
You know that your Love for her can stand for many good things in this life.

Move forward in the memory of her and do good things in her name...

With Deep Respect,

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Old Mar 29, 2009, 10:26 AM
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I know how you feel, I really do, I watched a loved one, a very important person in my life leave this Earth, take her last breathe. The picture was stuck in my mind for a while afterwards, but time is healing. Now when I think of her, I think of her life rather then her difficult death. Try to remember the times before.
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