Presence

I have just been talking with someone about something that related to something I had been thinking about. They mentioned people being drawn to us. I had been thinking after being in group therapy for a while that I had a sort of "presence" and I think that's the same thing. I think people with personality disorders, in particular cluster B's have this sort of presence about them that does draw others in. I figured this out cos in most conversations I tend to be the one steering it or keeping it going (or being silent and just observing others talk about general boring things- I tend to be the one who brings up contraversial things that get things going at a faster more emotional pace) yet in group therapy there is a sort of weirdness to the conversation, maybe it is just me feeling the weirdness of it I don't know. I often end up wanting to say something or ask something but silently sulking instead cos it's a situation that is weird and I don't know people well enough to just be myself (probably a good thing since it also makes me keep my bad side in check.) hahahaha. It seems like people don't know when to talk or something cos they are used to being the one who "steers the ship". Anyone else have a similar experiance?