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They can be "difficult" - to themselves too but also "fragile".
Please be kind.
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I think "fragility" is the keyword to Borderline.. And yes, kindness... Something there can never be enough of.
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Good point Fuzzy....I try to treat all of us as pillows with something of glass inside...
Some care should always be taken... ![]() Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Quote:
me too ! it sucks !
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Very true, Fuzzy-love; we're made of glass with which we cut ourselves.
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LizBeth "This too will pass" |
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花鳥風月
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We all have crosses to bare...Many are so unjust they border on mis delivered tragedies.
![]() But is it how we are measured...these burdens and challenges...or what we do with them? ![]() With Care ![]() Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Hi, I'm new here, but I recently discovered that BPD description fits me almost to a "T".
I discovered it in kinda a strange way. Went to Yahoo Answers and someone asked a relationship related question. It wasn't the answer, but one of the comments that someone made that mentioned BPD, so I decided to check it out. Boy was I floored! I had been in therapy in the past, and this was never mentioned to me. It would have helped me tremendously if it had been. I never understood my feelings back and forth about a person, one minute anger and the next nearly making them into a saint in my head. It was so weird to me that it had to be one extreme or another. I have always seen most everything as black and white, although as I have grown older I have learned to temper that. For a long time I had just worked on toughening myself up. It kinda helped, and I think I am better now than I have ever been, but it makes me sad that I had no clue for the past 20 years. Anyway, that's it for now. Just wanted to say hi and now I shall continue reading. ![]() |
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I would love to hear about how being diagnosed with BPD has affected (or "ruined") your life?
I work with some Borderlines and they are very needy and they always seems to be picking and choosing favorite people.... |
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Welcome StrawberryFields, I'm glad you found us here
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Hello pinkgrll, maybe you could share a bit more about your experiences. Here, we are mostly interested in working on and "improving" ourselves.
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Thank you
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