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Poohbah
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It's hard. I feel broken.
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Yes it is hard. To be reminded of how things were for me as a child, and see my own children leading a completely different life to the one I had. Constantly bombarded with the horror of the past, but I see the joy and happiness in my own children. Hang on to the fact that things will be good for your child too. Much love. ((((((((((( jennie )))))))))))) __________________ Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Jennie, yes it is hard, Realising it happened to us and not them. Even when they have friends round its hard.
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Yes, I can relate. When i look at my children today, I can see how vulnerable I must have been when I was hurt. It makes me want to shut down my feelings. It makes the pain and the memories so much more real. I have to deliberately remind myself that they are o.k. today because I protect them, and that it is o.k. for me to enjoy their childhood with them without the fear and agony that I grew up with. It is healing to be with them when I let it.
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