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Old Jan 18, 2016, 11:12 PM
Fightharder Fightharder is offline
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What's you advise to follow when you are feeling angry, stuck in the past and hating the person bulled you ...
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Old Jan 20, 2016, 03:58 PM
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Hi Fightharder.

Please understand that most bullying is about the other persons insecurities, but unfortunately you have become the target...and this never feels nice. Staying angry, or ruminating over thier cruel actions or words gives the bully power....I know its hard, but ignoring them is the most effective way to move forward.

You know who you are fightharder, and that's truly all that matters. Be kind to yourself.
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Old Jan 21, 2016, 12:39 AM
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Thanks a lot for your words and advise, what you say make a lot of sense to me, even it looks hard to do deserves a chance to try.

In these moments when you are feeling that anybody notice nothing or nobody sees anything, your hesitate about your self, you think that everything is because your imagination, the reality is that nobody cares and you need to remember who you are because in this process you forgot yourself.

Sometimes when I was in a middle of a situation or after a tough week a look this picture that I would like to share with you … please take a look, This picture it has been my mantra all this difficult period in my life

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Old Jan 21, 2016, 02:11 AM
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I totally agree with that statement fightharder...sometimes the unpolular choice is the only 'right' choice.

Become the hero of your own life story.
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Old Jan 22, 2016, 12:27 PM
Fightharder Fightharder is offline
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is very encouraging indeed what you say ... really is very few people who have these ideals ... the way to be different is hard ... many will leave, I hesitated to leave because originality this involves putting all your energy and go against the current. I thank God and I'm touched that there are more people in the world who think like that at the end this will cause the world to have better human beings.
Abandon and betray one's own convictions it is tempting, but it must be very hard maybe realize that you became someone very different from who aspired to be
Thanks to encourage those like me that we have felt defeated and we hesitated to go forward because it's worth
See again the way I had missed, makes myself get up to continue walking ...
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Old Mar 28, 2016, 06:59 PM
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Hi i think the worst weeks are coming
She took my office out ( I'm in a desk now); two people who used to work with me, she secretly agree with they now work with her instead of me
She has been very silent
I took some days off ( vacations ) and is very hard to me back to that atmosphere again
But you know what , I have an strategy ( after all I have been reading, I prepared ) and I'm talks with a lawyer as well, I guess the finish is close ( hopefuly) so thats why in thinking the worst still is coming to arrive
I trying to put y self information place,I'm totally burn out )
So this requires all my energies and I'm almost out of gas to stand up, but I don't have many options if I want to to this right for my future pace
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