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Old Apr 05, 2016, 01:06 PM
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"If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed"

Sylvia Plath - The Bell Jar

(Having "learned" those "lessons" so well, that having ANY "needs" is "shameful"

At least I know those attitudes and Lies are utter ********.

(This is about some "people" I've crossed paths with IRL

And the toxic "family" of origin

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Old Apr 05, 2016, 02:25 PM
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Hi Fuzzy,

Yes, you should NOT "expect" certain things from people............like you shouldn't expect to be abused, to be mistreated, to be treated as "less than"............"expect" is a bit close to needing to accept for me............and some things just aren't acceptable...........any which way.
And having needs, that's far from shameful. Needs are important, needs matter, you matter Fuzzy
And if there are any needs we're able to meet for you Fuzzy...........we're here for you

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