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Here's a safe thread for us all
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Have been and now am not! Feeling like myself again and actually happy. I am giving myself reassurance that I deserve to be well and live a happy life and not letting myself feel guilty.
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Can never get the trigger stuff to work on my "smart"phone but here goes
Trigger warning from this point onwards . . . . . . . . . One thing my abusive ex would do is threaten suicide if i didnt do as he wanted He also said he would make sure i had two kids cause he wanted them, i have never wanted kids He wouldnt allow protection in the house for either of us and even though fire is a major fear of mine, he wouldnt allow me to wear anything in bed at night, he would literally hide my pajamas so i couldnt wear them Last edited by FooZe; Mar 26, 2023 at 01:41 PM.. Reason: added trigger icon |
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He has so many restraining orders against different exes he will run out of places he's allowed to live, if he's not careful .........
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yes he wasnt allowed to go within however many miles it was of the homes of some of his exes, even before i got involved with him
i wasnt able to see the red flag at the time i have only recently began to understand why thats a big red flag (learning disabilities that i got) |
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Glad to see this thread. If anyone here needs support from someone who's been through it also I am here <3
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Anyone else's families judge everyone you date in fear of them being abusive too?
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Do you consider abuse in the hospital an abusive relationship? Cause I've had that.
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I grew up with a physically and abusive mother. Married someone like her trying to fix the past. Divorced after 31 years, then experienced spiritual abuse.....a church that put my name up on a big screen, followed by the words, "Conduct Unbecoming a child of God." The book, The Verbally Abusive Relationship saved my sanity and my life. I still have my faith and sense of humor!
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While being able to see red flags is good for self protection, being overly hyper vigilant causes you to not be able to trust anyone. It’s not good to try to see the bad, lead with that kind of thinking.
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Exactly TishaBiv. I hope my family can see that one day.
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Absolutely all the time
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I’ll keep this in mind.
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I'm not getting in another relationship ever again. Just hurt after hurt after hurt.
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I agree. I've definitely been in abusive relationships.
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__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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