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SERIOUSLY--This guy looks like he came off the cover of a romance novel! He's quiet, well respected. And he wants to go out with me! It's like OMG yes I can't believe it! But the PTSD in me hit the (PANIC) button, and now I want to avoid him. I haven't returned his call from yesterday yet nor even sent him a text message. He'll be at the site I am going to tonight. WHAT DO I DO?!? I know I should make some contact, somehow, and not just ignore his call. But I'm afraid of these situations. It makes me hate myself even more. A person can't just explain PTSD and make someone understand. I have no idea what or how much he and I could have in common. Of course I won't unless we get together more. He is SO good looking that I can't help myself but to consider it!
But how do I "cure" myself of PTSD? ![]() |
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Just blinding go for it! Okay easier said than done but if you don't somebody else will especially if he is hot!
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inkblot said: He is SO good looking that I can't help myself but to consider it! But how do I "cure" myself of PTSD? ![]() </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Hi Ink... Not a lover of cliches but they did get created for their coverage..LOL...but keep in mind the not judging a book by it's cover statement...IMH experience I have found that many folks with distinct visual advantages are less than developed than they might otherwise be... PTSD is certainly a serious issue for many of us but I try to remind folks that an important part of the pain issue is the word POST...it is in the past,,a place we have 0 effect upon. The now is where we can impress ourselves upon our world... Go have some fun... Lenny
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lol, wipe that drool off your chin! Just kidding
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So did you go out????
Sorry I am so nosy, but I gotta know! lol ![]() |
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