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Magnate
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Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Nov 21, 2007 at 11:21 AM
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i had 2 major areas, self esteem and post traumatic stress disorder. self esteem was at 100 and ptsd was at 92. i didnt realize that my ex effected me that much but i still have nightmares with him trying to kill me etc... i knew i had horrible self esteem so that wasnt really news. my boyfriend took it and got a 71 with his biggest things being coping (I could have told him that lol) and relationship issues
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Member Since Jan 2007
Location: england
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Nov 21, 2007 at 12:41 PM
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aww hon. my worst was self esteem AT 100 as well.
kill you! fricking hell, he sounds like an arsehole. i hope he suffers for hurting u take care self __________________ i miss you...  'cuz the drugs dont work, they just make you worse, but i, know ill see your face again...' 'welcome friends. i am potato.' 
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Magnate
Member Since Oct 2007
Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Nov 21, 2007 at 01:16 PM
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ive gotten past the point of wishing him harm. its been over 2 years and im finally getting to the point where i have compassion for him. i have seen 2 other women since me get the same treatment and they didnt fight back like i did. wishing him harm just puts me as low as he is and im above that now.
my nightmares have slowly progressed. it used to be that i would have nightmares where he would almost kill me. then he would try to kill me but i would run and now when i have those nightmares i actually fight back and almost kill him. so i think in my mind im working through it. since the nightmare where i almost killed him i havent had any since. and it doesnt make me enraged when i think about him. he is the way he is he is cause of his home situation and i wish that could have been better for him. oh well. ill get over it. thanks for your concern. |
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