[Melbadaze]

proberbly transference but at the end of some difficult communication i told T that i just want a person not a therapist...perhaps thats not fair I don't know...ita just how i am left feeling this evening.

Originally Posted by Melbadaze

proberbly transference but at the end of some difficult communication i told T that i just want a person not a therapist...perhaps thats not fair I don't know...ita just how i am left feeling this evening.

Interesting, Melba - my T told me last session that I should think of her more as another person and not be so concerned about her being my therapist. I've been worried about what is and isn't appropriate, T said she'd let me know, but I think I'm focusing on that so I won't focus on my feelings of transference, which seem to be really strong right now!

Good for you for telling T how you feel!!

((((((((((Melba)))))))))))

Ugh, navigating the therapy relationship can be so so so so so painful. I'm kind of there right now too, and I hate it.

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((melba))

I understand...