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Dec 22, 2009 at 02:59 PM
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my therapist after seeing her for 7 years dumped me last month. I ran away from my care home because i got scared, and i was being judged. So my t told me she could not see me anymore
 i feel so lost not having her in my life. she gave me no refferahls. now im living at my Dads there is no counseling just going to my pdoc once a month.
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Dec 22, 2009 at 03:03 PM
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Please tell me you're kidding!
 Not that you would joke about it, but I'm surprised! I don't know what else to say. Is there just no way she'll see you again? 
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Dec 22, 2009 at 05:37 PM
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(((Taylor))) Can you go back to your care home?
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Dec 22, 2009 at 05:37 PM
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I'm sorry that happened. Could you ask your pdoc for referrals? He might have other people he is used to working with. Good luck.
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Dec 22, 2009 at 07:14 PM
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Not giving you referrals is somewhat unethical. What is with therapists doing this crap?? They need to have a stricter weeding out process for this profession. Some people seriously have no business helping others.
Sorry I went off on my own rant. Thats horrible that she did that to you and I hope you find another therapist who isnt ignorant and wont waste your time. |
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Dec 22, 2009 at 07:24 PM
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Oh dear! that's awful.
Could you call your T. and ask for a referral? maybe she accidentally overlooked it. hoping things work out for you.  purple fins |
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Dec 22, 2009 at 08:55 PM
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Dec 22, 2009 at 08:56 PM
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Dec 22, 2009 at 09:22 PM
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i've had that happen before. Its awful. T's should lose thier job for being that awful.
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Dec 22, 2009 at 11:27 PM
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(((((Taylor)))))
I'm so sorry this happened!! May I ask, what scared you so much you would leave your care home? In what way were they judging you? I'm glad that you have your father to stay with. Can he step in and help get you back into the home or at least back with your T? What caused you to run away? Was it something you couldn't talk with T or your family about? Would they not help you? If there's an issue at the home, someone should step in so no one else has issues. Keep us posted. 
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Dec 23, 2009 at 06:13 AM
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I'm sorry
that really sucks.That nearly happened to me, she said I needed to work on other things first and then I could come back - I knew if that happened, she'd be too busy or whatever else. So she said to email her about what I think and she'd phone, so I did and I phoned because I couldn't wait. I don't know if it was my email, but she said I could still see her, but only if we work on the OCD stuff, then when I wouldn't talk about the other stuff, she said I could tell her anything, so it went back to how it was, pretty confusing, since that's why she was dumping me. Anyway, I think sending an email might be good, just telling her how you feel. It's worth a try, I didn't think it would work for me, but I was so happy that it did. Take Care
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Dec 23, 2009 at 08:37 AM
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That's crazy unethical. Did you and T have an agreement where if you ran away she wouldn't see you anymore? What really bothers me is her not leaving you with a referral. I'm so sorry you're in this position.
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Dec 23, 2009 at 10:50 AM
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Ditto about the referral.
I looked around on the internet, and this set of ethics is fairly standard: Quote:
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Dec 23, 2009 at 11:48 AM
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Dec 23, 2009 at 11:49 AM
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Dec 26, 2009 at 02:49 PM
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Well I hope that you will stay safe and be kind to yourself. (((( safe hugs )))))
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Dec 26, 2009 at 03:09 PM
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Was your T in your care home only?
I'm sorry this happened to you. You mentioned you are seeing a pdoc, can he/she refer you to a new T? __________________ Chris The great blessing of mankind are within us and within our reach; but we shut our eyes, and like people in the dark, we fall foul upon the very thing we search for, without finding it. Seneca (7 B.C. - 65 A.A.) |
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Dec 26, 2009 at 04:52 PM
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I was going to ask the same thing, can your pdoc refer you? What about an insurance referral? Do you have insurance?
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Dec 27, 2009 at 10:16 PM
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How scary. We are here for you. Don't give up.
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