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Old Mar 11, 2011, 10:42 PM
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I had an appt with my T today but it was for my 5yr old son not for me. My husband and I brought our son to see my T about anxiety. He has been having problems with worries lately/stomach aches that are anxiety related. It was so cool to see my T talk to my son the way she did. My husband was at the appt to and it was great for him as she talked to him about his anxiety just a little bit (my husband has vowed to NEVER go to a T to talk about his anxiety or anything for that matter - I think he could only benefit but whatever).

There's a big part of me that feels really sad about not going to be able to see my T come the end of the summer (insurance reasons and I'm coming to a close on lots of issues). It's going to be really, really, really hard on me however I now feel connected to T in a different way. I feel connected to my T through my family now as she has helped me and my husband be able to help our son.

Bittersweet and I feel a little less 'alone' about the goodbye I'm facing. I feel like I have a shared experience with my T and my family that I can carry with me. A transitional experience of sorts.

I don't get on line as much as I would like these days... thanks as always for listening.
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Old Mar 11, 2011, 10:53 PM
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That's awesome! Thanks for sharing.
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 09:51 AM
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What a wonderful transitional experience to have! I'm glad you could view your T relating to the other important people in your life and get a larger picture like that. Are you going to save some money and go back to T later maybe, after the summer? I went back to see my T after several years away and it was even better, more productive than at first.
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 10:13 AM
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Very cool !!
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 10:22 AM
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glad to hear from you, geez! thanks for sharing.
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 10:55 AM
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That's awesome geez!

A few weeks ago, my friend wanted to come into my session with me and she has a 1 year old that we also had with us. My T was so cute and sweet with her, I found a whole new respect for him. I LOVED seeing that side of him!
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Old Mar 12, 2011, 02:36 PM
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I would hope that when it's time for my T and I to end, that, although bittersweet, it will be a nice transition like yours.
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Old Mar 13, 2011, 08:50 PM
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Are you going to save some money and go back to T later maybe, after the summer? I went back to see my T after several years away and it was even better, more productive than at first.
I don't think I'm going to go back to T unless there is some sort of crisis that I need to deal with or need help dealing with. I feel pretty strong inside. If I go back to see her again after it 'ends' then perhaps it will be a checkup six months or a year down the road. I would kind of prefer to not have to go back to see her ever. I just feel like if I tell myself I can go back then I will lean on her vs standing on my own two feet. If I went back to her it would be for something major as I won't be able to afford therapy once insurance ends officialy on August 1st (I will be done before August 1st IMO).

Thanks for writing everyone

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