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Apr 24, 2011, 08:40 PM
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Hi everyone, just checking in...I see I haven't been here in over a month
 How is everyone? I hope you guys are doing well and are improving since I've last seen you. If I remember correctly, my last post in this forum had to do with losing my old T. Well, I met my new one a few weeks ago....she's such a great person  She has the ability to read my moods like a book by the very subtle changes in my expressions, and she reacts in the sweetest ever way when the change is bad. I gave her a kind of "heads up" about my transference issues and she's cool with it. I love her.Hope no one minds this thread...am using my laptop today instead of mobile for the first time in a while so thought I'd drop by, and this was the forum I posted most recently in before I left. So thanks in advance for reading  Indie
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Apr 24, 2011, 09:00 PM
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Hello
I'm new here, but it is nice to meet ya! Happy to hear you have a new T that you love her
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Apr 24, 2011, 09:03 PM
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That is so awesome Indie. Thanks for stopping by. I was thinking about you. I'm glad your new T is going well.
 
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Apr 24, 2011, 09:06 PM
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Yay! I'm so glad that you found a new T that you connect with so well.
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Apr 25, 2011, 02:38 AM
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Wow it HAS been a long time! WELCOME BACK!!
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Apr 25, 2011, 03:16 AM
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thanks for the update, it's nice to hear from you again. your new t sounds pretty cool. it is so amazing when someone really gets us.
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.  Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there. Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so. 
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Apr 25, 2011, 06:01 AM
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Glad things are going well Indie...best wishes!
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Apr 25, 2011, 09:30 AM
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glad you dropped by and glad you found a good new T, too!
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