[PTSDlovemycats]

My T is going away on Friday for 2 weeks. I don't want her to go. I hate when she goes away, it's always so difficult for me.

Cats, I know its so so hard, but you can do it. Post here 12 times a day if you need to.

[PTSDlovemycats]

Thanks so much. Knowing me I probably will post that much. Lol.

[granite1]

believe me cats i know it is so hard my T is always going away.just want you to know i am here to listen also if you want to share what is going on durring her absence.big hugs

Aaaaahhhh...you know what I just went through. It's hard. i don't know what i'd do without you guys to vent to!

[SpiritRunner]

hugs to you! it will be OK, you will make it through!

[PTSDlovemycats]

Thanks guys.

[Flooded]

Mine is due to come back this week but I'm going to cancel my appt to say "F**k you" to her

[PTSDlovemycats]

NICE! I bet she missed you as well!!

[PTSDlovemycats]

Flooded you aren't really going to do that are you?

[PTSDlovemycats]

I actually told my T today what I said in the "things you want to say to T...." thread about how she should just let me move in with her....

[Flooded]

Me and my hubby and kids stayed with my old t at the beginning of the year. Yanno that old saying "you don't know someone til you've lived with them" - its dead set true.

[PTSDlovemycats]

Oh right!! Now I remember the whole story!!

[Flooded]

Yeah, she had more screws loose than I do!

[PTSDlovemycats]

Lol, yes...it's all coming back to me now...

[granite1]

i also lived with my councler and that didnt work out so well either

[PTSDlovemycats]

I really don't want my T to leave me for 2 weeks.

Cats I'm "looking forward" to my T going on vacation also. I've often threatened him with pulling a "What About Bob" (the movie) and living in his basement.
It stinks but he will be back and in the meantime, for what it's worth, you have us.

[PTSDlovemycats]

Go away T, see if I care.

[Kacey2]

Hey Cats,
I feel for you. It really stinks when t's go on vacation. My t was away for 12 days over the fourth. I hope you can surf the urge to call and cancel when she gets back. I tried and did not succeed. I ended up feeling absolutely furious when they called to remind me of my appointment and I cancelled impulsively. It was not a good thing to do and made things worse. I know things are strained right now with the two of you and it is such a bummer that you have to endure this break. Do you have an appointment with her tomorrow? I hope you do and you can talk to her about how upset you are and what you can do to tolerate this. We are here for you and your t always comes back. I know those words don't soothe much but just trying to help.......hugs. KC

[PTSDlovemycats]

Originally Posted by Kacey2

Hey Cats,
I feel for you. It really stinks when t's go on vacation. My t was away for 12 days over the fourth. I hope you can surf the urge to call and cancel when she gets back. I tried and did not succeed. I ended up feeling absolutely furious when they called to remind me of my appointment and I cancelled impulsively. It was not a good thing to do and made things worse. I know things are strained right now with the two of you and it is such a bummer that you have to endure this break. Do you have an appointment with her tomorrow? I hope you do and you can talk to her about how upset you are and what you can do to tolerate this. We are here for you and your t always comes back. I know those words don't soothe much but just trying to help.......hugs. KC

Thanks Kacey, yes I have an appointment with her tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully I will be able to tell her how I feel and not chicken out...