Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 03:09 AM
Eloise42 Eloise42 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2010
Posts: 203
My parents put me in therapy when I was six, the whole concept was never really explained to me so what I emotionalized was that my parents thought there was something wrong with me and they had found outside validation. K won me over with expensive art supplies, artistic support and the time and space to do something I loved. By the time I was about sixteen I had a better grasp of the concept of therapy and actually started talking to my therapist of ten years. My parents didn't like what she had to say and my sessions with K stopped.

I have since seen several of therapists, some of them were okay but not a good fit, one was obviously having her own issues and another downright traumatic. So I stopped going to therapy even though I should. My childhood therapist is still practicing and I want to go see her. My problem is I feel weird talking about some of the worse things I've done as an adult, I feel like I'm going to disappoint her.

But she is the only therapist I have ever trusted and I want to see her. It's been fifteen years. Is it strange to call and ask for an appointment?

advertisement
  #2  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 04:04 AM
Perna's Avatar
Perna Perna is offline
Pandita-in-training
 
Member Since: Sep 2006
Location: Maryland
Posts: 27,289
I saw my "favorite" therapist over time again, after a 10 year absence. I was really surprised; we both had grown. I would give your therapist of choice a call and see what she has to say (she gets a vote too :-)
__________________
"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
Thanks for this!
Hope-Full
  #3  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 11:05 AM
Anonymous37917
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I agree with Perna. If this is someone you've really trusted, go back!
  #4  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 12:00 PM
Chopin99's Avatar
Chopin99 Chopin99 is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2009
Location: Southeastern US
Posts: 5,221
It is not strange at all. Call! What is the worst that can happen?
__________________
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau
  #5  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 12:46 PM
Anonymous32476
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I think you should go for it...sounds like you really trust her & she was a great T for you as a child. She can still be the same great T for you now...keep us posted.
  #6  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 03:16 PM
Anonymous47147
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Go for it!
  #7  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 04:38 PM
eclogite eclogite is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2011
Posts: 230
I think it'd be really neat to be able to go back to someone who helped you at a different point in your life. I wish I could find the T I saw back in high school. I'd love to be able to see how my current issues compare to then.
  #8  
Old Dec 19, 2011, 05:00 PM
Elli-Beth's Avatar
Elli-Beth Elli-Beth is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Posts: 675
My T isn't my childhood T, but we did have an 8 year gap between working together before and now. I'm glad I chose him again. We're both in entirely different places in life now, but it felt so much safer than starting from scratch. When I knew I needed to see someone again, it was a little awkward making that first call back to him, but it's really paid off.
Reply
Views: 483

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:00 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.