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Dec 29, 2011, 01:03 PM
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I feel so sad because my T didn't email me. I know she is supposed to be back and working at her other office today. Do you think she is too busy to email me "I'm back" like she promised? I'm not going to email her (I did Tuesday night) to ask her. I want to see when she's going to remember me.
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Dec 29, 2011, 01:05 PM
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She is probably catching up with work because of the holidays. Remember she is just human. I am sure your email will come and if not give her a call!!
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Dec 29, 2011, 01:13 PM
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Dec 29, 2011, 01:19 PM
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I'm waiting for an e-mail from T right now too. It's so easy to go to the "he forgot about me, he doesn't care about me, etc" place, but I'm trying to stay in what I know is *true*...that he just hasn't got to it yet. And that even if he DOES forget, it's because of him and his humanness, not a measure of how much he cares for me.
My T isn't in the office right now, but if he were, I would SO call and say "hey, when you get a chance will you e-mail me? I can feel myself wanting to spiral out about it, and I really don't want to go there!". I've learned that for ME, it feels WAY better in the end just to reach out and be honest about what I'm feeling and what I need than to test T to see if/when he'll remember, etc. I really hope you hear from her soon, Rainbow! 
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Dec 29, 2011, 01:21 PM
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It's not just "after the holidays". She was away for more than a week and is working today, so she probably has no time in between clients because she schedules us for 1 hour or 1 1/2 hours except for lunch. She works very hard. I don't see her until Tuesday.
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Dec 29, 2011, 06:41 PM
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Did you get an email?
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Dec 29, 2011, 06:48 PM
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She emailed me at around 5 p.m. when she was done with her day. Just as we arranged, an "I'm back safe and sound and I'll see you Tuesday".
I still feel sad. I want to be with her and not have to go through the days until then. We don't do anything for New Year's so it's not a special day. I want to work on cleaning out my closet which I started doing. I hope if I get involved with some projects around my house the time will go faster. Maybe I'll call some friends I haven't been in touch with for a long time. But I'm basically in a crying mood. I want my T
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#8
Dec 29, 2011, 06:57 PM
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(((((Rainbow))))) It is so hard when we miss our Ts. I think it would be great for you to call your old friends. Sometimes I wonder if that is why Ts do what they do. They want us to reach out to our peers "IRL"
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Dec 29, 2011, 07:29 PM
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Hi Rainbow. I'm sorry that you are feeling sad.
Separation can be difficult. Do you have anything there with you that can help you to feel the connection with T? Maybe there are ways to hold those good feelings you feel when you are with her. Try to take some time to do something special for yourself today. Calling friends is a great idea! Take care, Rainbow.
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Dec 30, 2011, 02:26 AM
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Aren't you happy now you know she remembered?
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Dec 30, 2011, 08:51 AM
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i'm so glad she emailed and is ok.tuesday will be here soon and you will get to see her then safe and sound and ready to work with you
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