T cancelled because T broke a crown, rescheduled for next Thursday. I called back after the shock ( T cancelling has been a huge fear of mine ) and T gave me Tuesday at 11. I know in my mind it has NOTHING to do with me, but after my melt down and emergency appointment then cancel....I feel sick , I know its ok...can ya'll just tell me its ok, I am at work and I can feel the disappointment and rejection bringing me down....

[pbutton]

It has nothing to do with you, it's just bad luck.

It's just emotions. You know intellectually that all this is completely normal. I've had a broken crown and believe me, you want to get to the dentist ASAP, and you go whenever the dentist can make time for you. So I hope you can deal with the emotions and realize this has NOTHING to do with how the T feels about you. Sorry this happened to you - I know it sucks.
Would a hug help?

[granite1]

i know how miserable it feels but you will be ok and so will T and you will see him tuesday.stick around with us untill then

[skysblue]

When my T cancelled once because she was sick, I had no doubt that it had nothing to do with me. Nevertheless, I was also devastated. I had only 1/2 hour before session and I felt to me that my day was ruined. I felt true grief. Go figure. So, I can relate to the deep disappointment.

[Unrigged64072835]

It's okay, Lola. Bad things happen, even to Ts. And broken crowns are no fun, either.

Hope you and your T feel better soon.

It's okay. It really is.

(Just think of all the fun your T's having at the dentist. Yuck. What T would choose drills and shots and that wire thingy that holds your mouth open over you?)

[Chopin99]

You will be okay, Lola. It is okay to be disappointed with your circumstances. You know your T's cancelling had nothing to do with you. Breathe deeply, try to live in the moment, and believe you can be okay. Do you have natural supports in your life to help you? If not, listen to us here on PC.

[stopdog]

It is okay and not about you at all. I am sorry it had to happen to you and this was really bad timing for you. But it is not at you.

[rainbow8]

I'm sorry. I worry every week that my T will cancel. I know how you feel, how huge the disappointment is. One day at a time. Your T isn't rejecting you.

Aw, that really sucks. Really really. I know how disappointed you must be, but the other posters are right, it's not about you, it's just bad luck. Hang on in there til your sesh on Tue, keep posting!

Thank y'all very much She did denie I was on " probation " due to this past weekend. So even though I swear I heard that... It makes me feel better she doesn't plan on dumping me.