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The continuation of the eye contact article...
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...herapy-part-ii looks like we've been "found" ![]()
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Hehe!
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I was actually a bit upset that someone "told" about that thread. Having a therapist read our fun little discussion about slip on versus tie shoes is . . . I dunno. Upsetting isn't the right word. Disconcerting maybe.
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I'd be p**sed if there was any identifying info in the thread, but there isn't, so it doesn't bother me so much. I can see where it could bother/trigger some people though, so I certainly understand where you'd find it disconcerting, MKAC.
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That writer is how I found this site! And what a godsend, too.
Now I can talk to you guys instead of agonizing about calling/emailing my T. |
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omgomgomg.. hahahaha...
Yeah, that clever participant is DEFINITELY familiar w/the eye contact dilemma. ![]() |
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I liked what he said about NOT wanting eye contact because it was so negatively loaded in the past - the eyes we looked at reflected shame, anger, etc. that was certainly the case for me, and I was always "marked down" at work, assumed to be lying or at least uncommunicative.
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I used to get "aloof", but not any more.
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Yeah, I've been 'aloof' too...
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careful what you admit to - I can just imagine the next article on that site ![]()
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You are so right! Which makes me think that I totally missed the boat - I SHOULD have started a thread titled "Your T's butt or eyes: Which are you more likely to look at?" ![]() |
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Definitely his eyes. Because, you know, he's sitting on the other thing.
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