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Old Apr 01, 2012, 01:21 PM
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I just start crying as soon as I start talking about anything in therapy. I can't help it.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 01:24 PM
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No I find it very hard to show emotion. I think it's good you can be open with yours even though it hurts. It will benefit you in the long run to express them.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 01:59 PM
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Nope - I can't cry at all - wish I could, I too think it is probably helpful in processing stuff and being able to show your emotions.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 02:19 PM
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It's weird though it's kind of incongruous with what I'm saying and I feel detached from it. I guess it means something though.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 02:21 PM
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 02:41 PM
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There have been sessions when I've cried a lot. When that happens, I feel I have got my money's worth.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 02:59 PM
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i don't cry
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:01 PM
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Yep. I've been there, many times. Just when I think that I am going to be able to have a conversation without crying, and actually go a couple of appointments that way, lo and behold, the tears show up again.

I notice that the tears are more plentiful when I'm talking about hard stuff that I've been avoiding. The few appointments after the hard ones are where I seem to be able to talk without tears.

It will get better! Don't worry, I'm sure your T is used to it!
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:20 PM
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No crying-I feel like I completely detach from my body during therapy. This feeling allows me to share things that I never thought I could tell anyone. At the end of therapy, it takes me a lot of processing to get myself back together. I used to go during my lunch break, but I have found that I can't get it together quick enough to do this.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:34 PM
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depends , sometimes I do
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:51 PM
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I only cry when I talk about my mother's illness. I can't cry when I talk about my CSA.

My previous T used to joke that he didn't consider a successful session unless I cried.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:52 PM
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I can't cry anywhere. I do have friends who say they cry from start to finish.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:52 PM
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Sometimes I will randomly cry while I am speaking.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:54 PM
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I don't cry in therapy. Can't feel much emotion except tension.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 03:56 PM
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I usually just say something like, I feel like crying from that (whatever T or I just said). It is very rare - maybe once a year? that I cry for a few minutes.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 04:10 PM
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I cry, not as often as I imagined that I would before I started this um adventure, but it's usually either a) because it hurts to talk about things I'd been hiding from everyone including myself and b) some things I need to say are just downright embarrassing. And sitting on that couch is the one place that I absolutely know I will not be ridiculed for sitting there bawling like a baby. So it's always a healing thing.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 08:24 PM
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I don’t cry very often if I'm talking about something bad happening to me, but I cry very reliably when I talk about someone being kind to me or feeling close to someone. It just overwhelms me.
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Old Apr 01, 2012, 09:09 PM
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No, I'm unable to cry. The most so far is watery eyes but that's it.

I feel blocked in therapy from allowing myself to do this.

I think it's shame.
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Old Apr 02, 2012, 09:25 AM
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It's weird though it's kind of incongruous with what I'm saying and I feel detached from it.
Why do you say that it is incongruous with what you are saying?
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Old Apr 02, 2012, 01:07 PM
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Lately yes i have been crying allot in my sessions with my therapist and addiction counsellor. Life right now for me is up side down, marriage, my family (Dad) and Grandpa, and comming to terms with my past.
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Old Apr 02, 2012, 01:18 PM
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Why do you say that it is incongruous with what you are saying?
I guess it's not incongruous it just feels separate. Like it just starts like clockwork and keeps going. I don't even have to be talking about particularly emotional material. It just happens.
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