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Apr 10, 2012, 09:00 PM
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My mom is terminally ill and I found out today that she's being moved into inpatient hospice in the next few days. It means the end is very near. I've been a wreck all day.
I have my regular appointment with T on Thursday. He always tells me that I should call him if I need him. There's a part of me that wants to see him tomorrow, because I know I'll feel better after talking to him. There's another part of me that says I'm going to see him on Thursday anyway, so don't bother him - it's just one more day. There's another part that says it isn't worth going just to sit there and cry in front of him for 50 minutes. I wish the parts would come to a consensus while I sleep tonight. Any thoughts? |
 anonymous31613, Anonymous33425, Anonymous37917, Anonymous43209, Anonymous47147, BonnieJean, FourRedheads, pbutton, shezbut, Sunne, vin_rouge
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#2
Apr 10, 2012, 09:04 PM
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I sorry to hear about your mother. Call the therapist. There is no reason to suffer more. Just call him and take what comfort you can.
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#3
Apr 10, 2012, 09:07 PM
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I am so sorry, I feel terrible for you, I know times like these test our inner strength and faith in God, ( or other higher power etc. ). We will all be here to help you, post when you need help. As for T I would have called him the moment I got the news. And I would definitely go see him tomorrow and prepare for what may come, it's in Gods hands now. Either way your T should and will support you. I'll pray for you, if I may. 
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| critterlady
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#4
Apr 10, 2012, 09:14 PM
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(((critterlady)))
I'd recommend trying to see your T sooner. You've got additional stuff on your mind now that needs to be discussed. Hugs and best wishes to you.
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"Only in the darkness can you see the stars." - Martin Luther King Jr. "Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness but because you deserve peace." - Author Unkown |
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#5
Apr 10, 2012, 09:33 PM
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Critterlady, having been there twice in recent months with my dad and father in law, I empathize. Definitely call your T. Sometimes just the sound of my T's voice was enough to really help. I asked him to call and leave me a voice mail, and I listened to it over and over in those final days with my dad. I really don't know how I would have gotten through that time without my T.
I'll be thinking of you. My heart goes out to you. |
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#6
Apr 10, 2012, 09:33 PM
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I would deff call him....These are the things that need to be discussed....
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| critterlady
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#7
Apr 10, 2012, 09:33 PM
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I'm really sorry about your Mom. I agree that reaching out for T might be a good idea. You don't have to carry this on your own and this really merits a call to T.
Warm regards and hugs. |
| critterlady
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#8
Apr 10, 2012, 09:41 PM
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Thank you, all. It's so hard.
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| BonnieJean, Sunne
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#9
Apr 10, 2012, 09:42 PM
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Hang in there sweetie....we are here if you need us....
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| critterlady
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#10
Apr 10, 2012, 10:05 PM
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Take care, sweetie. And call your T.
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| critterlady
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#11
Apr 10, 2012, 10:11 PM
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I cant imagine... I am so very sorry. Please call your T. You deserve extra support.
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#12
Apr 10, 2012, 10:35 PM
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I'm sorry for what you have to go through right now... If you need anything from us, let us know...
And I'm pretty sure your t would be glad to help you through those difficult time; don't hesitate if you feel like calling |
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#13
Apr 11, 2012, 07:56 AM
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we're here for you, so sorry you are going thru this. Call your T.
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never mind... |
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#14
Apr 11, 2012, 08:43 AM
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i'm so sorry about your mom.when my grandma was in hospice they were wonderful making sure she was well cared for.
i would definately call ypour T you deserve to be well cared for also
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT  Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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#15
Apr 11, 2012, 09:46 AM
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Thank you, everyone.
I called him and left a message. Now I'm wishing I hadn't, because I have no idea what I want him to do for me. |
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#16
Apr 11, 2012, 02:11 PM
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He called me back this afternoon and we talked for a while. He always makes me feel better, so I'm glad I called.
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| anonymous112713
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#17
Apr 11, 2012, 02:15 PM
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Good sign of a Good T, they make you feel better.
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Apr 11, 2012, 03:16 PM
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that is so nice .i'm glad he was able to make you feel a bit better.
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