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Old Apr 16, 2012, 11:09 AM
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My T had to leave town again
Long but indefinite amount of time.
We went to see her last night
She told us
The inside kids cried and cried
Was there til nearly midnight
I am numb
She says it wont be as hard to keep in touch this time. She already has phone/ internet where shes going
And we are working on some projects together
She said it was a real treat for her to get to come to my house last week
I am exhausted
Numb
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 11:48 AM
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 11:53 AM
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 11:58 AM
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I'm sorry.

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Old Apr 16, 2012, 01:02 PM
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I'm so, SO sorry this is happening again. You're so strong, but this has to be incredibly difficult and painful.

Big hugs to you if you'd like them.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 01:04 PM
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So sorry to hear this. Hang in there.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 01:53 PM
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 03:03 PM
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Sorry to hear that. The unpredictability must be really difficult to bear.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 03:04 PM
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It might be easier once my body recovers from surgery.... I am still pretty sick and in pain... Was SUPPOSED to avoid stress ( ha!)
I cant physically do much to keep busy/ distracted right now...
At least last night when she told us, we had a couple hours to cry on her shoulder and talk about some things. And she gave us a stuffed kitten.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 03:06 PM
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Oh and 1 of the very young inside kids gave T her favorite board book that T has read to her... T put it in her bag and will take it with her, so she can read it to her over the phone.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 04:37 PM
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Oh and 1 of the very young inside kids gave T her favorite board book that T has read to her... T put it in her bag and will take it with her, so she can read it to her over the phone.
This is very sweet. It seems you planned well, to the extent you could, for your T's absence. I wish you a peaceful remainder of recovery from surgery.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 06:39 PM
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She just called from the airport to say goodbye.
We are just very very sad
and not feeling too well
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 07:27 PM
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(((((((((((((SarahMichelle and all))))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry she is leaving again
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 07:40 PM
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Thank you everyone.
I think what's hard about this time is that we're alone and trying to recover from surgery and stuff.... and we have been doing some super hard trauma work with our T the past month, and all that feels up in the air again. Again.
Going to try to do things better this time... I have a new hobby to do (doll making), and usually spring is a better time of year for me than fall/winter (when she was gone so long last time). She also said we can come visit her if we can get away from work. I doubt I can get away from work for a week, but its nice to think about.
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 08:06 PM
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Where on earth did she go this time?
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Old Apr 16, 2012, 08:09 PM
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Oh and 1 of the very young inside kids gave T her favorite board book that T has read to her... T put it in her bag and will take it with her, so she can read it to her over the phone.
Now that's service! Your T is one in a million.

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Old Apr 17, 2012, 12:23 AM
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did you get to keep her pug again?
sorry to hear she left again,
i will wish her a safe and fast trip home!!
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Old Apr 17, 2012, 01:05 AM
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Hang in there sweetie.....
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Old Apr 17, 2012, 08:05 AM
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Yes i still have her pug-- had him since last july. When she came to visit the other day, i think he recognized her but not sure. She went back to the same place she was last time, helping out her family.
Yes she is definitely one in a million. She said a lot of very nice things the other night to us... Trying hard to hang onto those things.
The first day is hard i an trying to be strong on the outside but i feel like we are falling apart.
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Old Apr 17, 2012, 07:59 PM
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I just miss her right now. I have some of her stuff in my house, trying to find comfort in those things... but its not the same without her here. I know we can talk on the phone and email, but in person is what actually WORKS for us.
Thanks for this!
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Old Apr 17, 2012, 08:58 PM
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