[critterlady]

My mom died early last week. I went from crying nearly incessantly through Monday to feeling almost completely numb today. It feels really bizarre, but it's better than the crying. Frankly, right now I don't care about anything.

I'm glad I see T tomorrow.

I am really sorry about your mum I hope that you take good care of yourself

[stopdog]

I am sorry about your loss. Losing a mother is a huge deal. Mine died suddenly a few years ago and I was numb for months after. Sometimes I would even forget she was dead and dial up and be surprised when my dad answered the phone. I curled up in bed for over a month after her death and did nothing really but walk the dog and go back to bed. My partner was out of the country for her job and I quit answering the phone to friends.
The point of that is to tell you I believe losing a parent is very tough and takes a long time to grieve. It may (based on my experience) come and go in waves for a long time. I hope you can be gentle with yourself and if possible not stress over how long it takes.

[likelife]

I'm glad you see your T tomorrow too. I hope he/she is able to offer a kind listening ear and some comfort that, at the very least, your grieving process is honored and important.

[bluemountains]

((((critterlady))))
I know how hard it is for you. I'm glad you get to see you t tomorrow.
Bluemountains

[critterlady]

T will help tomorrow. He's the one person I feel safe crying in front of. Or not crying. He never judges my reactions.

[linda24]

I am sorry for your loss. I hope that your T will be able to offer you some comfort.

[Wren_]

i'm glad you can have that safety to be who you are at that moment with T and that you know he will help please look after you as others have said; and write here as much as you need also

[WePow]

Sending you very big hugs. I am so sorry for your loss.