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May 29, 2012, 05:54 PM
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Omg I'm so embarrassed. I sent my daily email to T today, and I told him that...
"The little kid in me honestly wants to give you a huge hug, because I've missed you SO much." Is that attachment issues?  Or am I just an idiot?  (he doesn't allow hugs anyway) 
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May 29, 2012, 06:13 PM
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I don't know if it's an attachment 'issue', but it does indicate he's important to you! I can relate to this - sometimes I feel like I want to give my T a big hug. I'm not sure if she would allow it either, or how appropriate it would be.. And I'm not sure if it's coming from my 'inner child' or my 'adult'.. maybe both
Your T might not accept hugs, but I'm sure he'll appreciate your sentiment. |
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May 29, 2012, 08:04 PM
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i've been feeling that way lately. (but I'm not brave enough to tell her)
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May 29, 2012, 10:21 PM
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I have felt that way about several therapists I've had. I'm currently very very attached to my voice movement therapist. I don't consider it an "issue" I'm grateful and so happy that we have such a close relationship, that she can hold the intensity of my feelings for her and isn't afraid.
It's too bad your therapist doesn't let you give hugs. All mine have. Just my oppinion, but I don't consider it a bad thing at all. |
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May 30, 2012, 07:41 AM
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It may be attachment, but I don't think that's bad. You need someone to hang on to.
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never mind... |
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#6
May 30, 2012, 07:50 AM
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Quote:
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"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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