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Old Sep 19, 2012, 08:58 AM
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So some of you may have read that at my last session my T said that we would set up a time for us to talk and check in this week because it's rough right now...but I didn't hear from him yesterday about setting up and I haven't yet this morn either...I just get sooo anxious that he will forget about me-when this happens in the past-I act out (I know...at least I'm aware of it now) and I don't want to do that...but I just get so scared he will forget about what he told me we could do : (
Should I re-email or just let it be and trust...
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Old Sep 19, 2012, 09:13 AM
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So some of you may have read that at my last session my T said that we would set up a time for us to talk and check in this week because it's rough right now...but I didn't hear from him yesterday about setting up and I haven't yet this morn either...I just get sooo anxious that he will forget about me-when this happens in the past-I act out (I know...at least I'm aware of it now) and I don't want to do that...but I just get so scared he will forget about what he told me we could do : (
Should I re-email or just let it be and trust...
I'm not sure what to do , but I do know that punishing your self is not the answer. You have to remember that even if God forbid he did forget, that you don't know whats going on in his life right now either. You would hate to act out only to find out he has been sick all week, right? I would probably send an email saying...hey did you forget about me? But that's me... only you know your relationship with T. Be safe.
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Old Sep 19, 2012, 10:15 AM
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I had this exact issue on sat. My t forgot. U gotta remember that they are human and make mistakes too. Im sure that if he did forget, it was unintentional. my t told me that if it gets to be like evening on the day she said she would call, to shoot her an email or text saying like, "hello... Get with the program". Lol u xont have to use those exact words but, I would send a nice email if you dont hear from him...
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Old Sep 19, 2012, 10:52 AM
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Sooo I need to learn patience haha and trust-T emailed me to set up next Sesh and we are going to check-in on Friday!!! : ) I have to remember too-T's are really busy-that doesn't mea he doesn't care about me or that I'm not important
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Old Sep 19, 2012, 12:05 PM
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Exactly! U can do it you've come so far
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