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Old Mar 08, 2013, 12:47 PM
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I had a heavy session on Wed, but afterwards I was feeling pretty good about things. On my way out the door, I shouted "Thank you!". I've never done this before and in retrospect it sounded kinda needy

Well she called me last night to see how I was doing and directly referenced that shout and wanted to make sure I was doing "ok".

I loved that she called, maybe too much. I am having a hard time with it. I've been getting used to the week or 2 week delay in between sessions and although I would probably want interaction btwn sessions, I've never allowed myself to believe it was a possibility.

Her innocent (and caring) act of calling me has me all messed up. I want more contact, but I want to keep the boundaries solid.

I have a session on Monday, so I will bring this all up with her, but in the mean time I'm freaking out!
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Old Mar 08, 2013, 12:56 PM
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Don't let it eat at you.... you will talk about it on Monday and that's a great idea. Enjoy the weekend!
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 06:17 AM
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You and I are similar, that would have had me all over the place also. How did it go when you discussed it with her?

Also, I don't think the "thank you" sounds needy, if anything I'd say it sounded grateful.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 06:38 AM
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You liked it. Enjoy it as much as you can. It is a beautiful thing she did.

Monday you can look deeper into T's calling you and how you feel about it.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 05:08 PM
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that is so nice that she called because she cared enough to do so. I would be feeling the way you are too. this is hard isnt it?
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